SO i met this amazing HB 7, maybe 8. She and i talked for most of the night. Conversation never really went dull, though she was at a table with her friends so there were times when i was involved with them as well. I got a few things i believe to be ioi's she kept scratching the back of her wrist, a few hair flips. she adjusted her foot and bumped mine, followed by a hand near my leg, not touching with "i'm sorry." every question i asked i got a direct answer, clearly honest.

Things seemed to be ok so i offered to buy her a drink. She said i could put it on her tab. To which i said, I got you covered girl like you men should be buying drinks. To which i got a smile and a hair tuck behind the ear. I come back and all seems well. SHe disappears with another girl from the table for a bit, i did not follow. I just started chatting up the other women at the table. She comes back i just look as i get out of her chair waiting for her to open with me, so i can gauge her interest. Because i was sitting in her chair, like a boss(LOL).

so long story short, a couple of their friends left, and i took that time to say i was heading out too. SO i asked her if she had her phone and then gave her my number. I did not ask for hers(possible mistake) but she gave me some line about a small age difference and i said who cares, im a great guy! take my number and call me. Said my goodbyes to her friends and left.


How could i have done this better? My friend(sort impromptu wingman) said she was in to me but i was slow to go for the close and i know it might have cost me.

thanks ahead of time for the input. I might add my friend said he was going to put in a word for me because she needed a great guy in her life. I did not ask.

not a close if you didn't get her number

You got to number close, giving her your phone number and not getting hers shows that you lack confidence big turn off for girls.

well i asked for her number, she gave me some crap about a age diff. and like i said i played it off ok. I said take my number and you decide then call me. Then i jetted.

Like i said, been out of the game a while.

Its ok man we're just helping you for when you go at the next girl, you did ok but show more confidence next time, esclate more, throw some humor in there while your esclating and when you ask for her number make it seem like your doing her a favor.

yeah i appreciate the help thank you all !

It just felt like she was interested, not me hoping she was. Her friends even told me she was interested when i ran into them down the street. they were like "did you give her your number?"

hell two of her friends, one married one with her bf gave me their numbers. the one with bf did not have bf out with them lol.

doesnt really matter. game only applies to 8+