Hi,

I have a problem. I awant to know how I can change and what I am doing wrong. I have no problem speaking and talking to people. I tend to talk too much if you ask me. I want to be friendly with everyone so I just talk about anything. I am called weird all the time. I can talk to girls and start conversations but I cant never get them interested. I make jokes alot and tht just makes me seems likea clown to others but I just want to make every interaction a fun and engaging encounter. I make a lot of sarcastic jokes and people usually dont understand tehm and I just stop talking. Can anyone help?

Stop trying to impress everyone by being friendly. Being friendly will never get you anywhere in life besides walked all over like a door mat. Be memorable. Don't be afraid to put people in their place.

So how can I go about not being friendly to everyone ? How do I change that . Should I just be stoic and not start conversations? What kind of conversations should I be talking about ?

LOL I didn't say that... be sociable. But don't try and appease everyone. Keep the conversations light and fun. Be playful. Acting like a tough guy won't get you anywhere either because it will scare people away....

Haha I am not very good at this . Can you give me some examples if you may?