So after a lot of practice, some failures, and some successes, I've gone from total AFC to now starting to date a legit HB9.

This girl could really have just about any guy she wanted... and she knows it. For now, she seems incredibly interested in me. But, I'm worried... I keep catching my inner AFC trying to come out. Biting my tongue before I shower her with dumb compliments. Wanting to, but stopping myself from, doing her lots of nice favors and being in the palm of her hand. Etc. I've done well so far but sooner or later she's going to find out that on the inside I'm just some dork that doesn't know how to dress himself, thinks Boston Market is fine dining, and is the example of "nice guys finish last." hahah

So I'm curious what kind of tips you guys have for this less discussed part of all this. Anything from general strategy to specific tips/examples. How does an recovering AFC keep a hottie around once he's got her?

If your from Cleveland Ohio you chain them to a pipe in your basement.

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Invite her over and break her arms and legs so she can't leave. Kathy Bates did it in Misery, so it must work.

How long have you been "seeing" her? A few times? A few weeks? I'm dating a girl I've known for 3 weeks right now and I had no issue throwing out compliments. I think a major issue many of you guys have when it comes to keeping girls around is this attitude where compliments are the devil. We all know a PUA will rarely need them in the field when trying to score a lay, but the relationship game is different. Let's understand, there is a difference between, "Hey, I like how your hair looks today." and complimenting the girl every chance you get on stupid small bullshit.

I think your main issue is you're talking yourself out of her, though. You're telling yourself you're not good enough for her. But this is complete bullshit. You've already made it by the toughest hurdle; that is, the initial interest. This girl is attracted to you and she is interested in you. Is that not enough?

This will keep her for a few years LMFAO

yeah bro stick to the plan and stick it in your head you are a winner a you can fuck the girl when you like to do it . instead of telling her how beautifull she is keep her down with negs dont let her be over you. once every two weeks give her a chocolate invite her too dinner. the rest its pure sex make her love as if you where going to lose your dick the next day