It's a little embarrassing to admit I need help, but I do. Yes, I would love to learn how to pick up more girls, yes I would love to learn how to talk to girl more...eloquently, but what really interests me about the PUA scene is how all the people, all the greats I've read about have become better people.

That's what I want. I can be self sufficient on my own, but I want to do something more with my time than just sitting in front of my computer or playing video games. I want to actually be interesting. I want to be a great story teller. I want to be a great charmer. I want be that guy who walks into a room and everybody is happy to see. If I can be a better, more interesting, more fulfilled human being, then the frequency with which I get laid will be inconsequential.

Don't get me wrong, I do still need help in the women department. I have no problem meeting new people, but do have trouble talking to cute girls I haven't been around for a while. I can be charming on first meetings which is great for job interviews, but I can't seem to sustain that unless I'm talking about something I am passionate about. And even then I tend to ramble on when nobody cares anymore. I also have trouble adapting to change quickly. I need help thinking on my feet. Then I've got a case of the nice guys which is an entirely separate issue I'm trying to deal with. So...yes, I've got my problems and need any help I can get. ...so good to meet you all and look forward to learning.

Welcome to the forum bro

Charisma is one of the most important parts of pick up. Its an amazing ability to make people who just met you feel as if they have known you for years. Your ability to do such will only improve by learning this.