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SUMMER BREAK MOMENTUM UPDATE!!!:
So me and my boy go out to this outdoor mall today. We damn near walked around for at least 3 hours, my feet and lower back were dead. (Messed up my lowerback due to when I used to do heavy squats. Becareful when squatting)
Anyways... we have to outdo what we did the day/time before. So we're talking to strangers right and doing indirect approaches at first.. you know lame shit. After a bit we finally mustered up and went direct.
I'm a really shy guy so it's hard AF for me around strangers, but I said fuck it. Told this milf she looked gorgeous, and her face lit up like she ate the sun. There were a few other chicks we complimented... and all there faces lit up and they said... and I quote.. "You just made my day
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Once my AA calms down IJDGAF! I was flexing while walking, checking myself out in mirrors, me and my boy are laughing. Just self amusement shit... You can call it insecure, ego, need approval, but I'm out here having fun and not giving a FUARRRK!
When I do give a fuck, like when I first got there and was like "Zomg I don't want to do this" I blend in with the crowd. I don't do any of my cocky shit. I don't laugh at that stupid shit. I don't shadow box in the middle of the street like I'm invincible. I'm a regular.
So just an FYI, that's not out of douchebagness that many of you think Zyzz was doing. I felt what he felt, and it's solely for self amusement. We're just having a good time, mayne!
Anyways no closes still, but a big step up as I've never approached a stranger and called her gorgeous. I'ma outdo myself tomorrow. We'll see what happens.
Side Note: I don't really have a game plan or anything, I don't think what I'm going to say next. I just make myself look presentable, and smell good. I'm no fucking master at this shit, but imo the reason why all these so called "methods" are successful (and some people swear by it) is not b/c of the method itself... it's b/c you actually got off up your ass for once and talked to women.... So obviously there going to come.
No amount of game is going to make a women sleep with you if she doesn't want to... it's a numbers game, PLAYA!
AA falls off very quickly after your first couple approaches. My advice is keep the compliments milder. My favorite opener is: "hey, you're cute. What's your name?". Its as simple as that. No mystery bullshit, no creepy mind programming, etc. Telling a woman she's gorgeous is going a bit over the top. Once you open with the courteous yet mild compliment, don't get stuck in the frame of reference of trying to kiss her ass. You can DHV, and instantly start acting like the prize and have HER qualify herself. When you try to close, hand her your cell phone with "hey I have to be somewhere, but we should meet up for coffee sometime, here, put in your number". Even if they have a BF and aren't interested, they usually do it. I text once, if the girl doesn't respond, delete the number and reserve your fucks given for another time.
Good luck.
PS. My cousin (he's a god of natural pick up despite not being the most handsomest prince on the planet, though his enormous bank account can't hurt his game) tells me that there's no need to act interested in what they have to say, for the most part. He says just ramble about whatever comes to mind, and don't stop. It's a bit crude I suppose, but it works for him. I try to use a bit more finesse. I start with something lame like "are you from around here?" then I DHV with my list of countries I've lived in, and then ask them about where they're from, what they study (I pretty much stick to college girls only), and then turn the conversation towards what they study and maybe even have a small debate about some little controversial subject in their field (I dated an art girl once. 5 minutes after meeting her I was arguing with her about the creative merits of post modernist art. Dated a poli sci, my first conversation with her was a heated argument about tax policy). You can then work yourself in to the conversation. Just make sure you have stories/things to say that won't blow the socks off a sci-fi dork.
CHAT
