Some of you guys may have seen my post about me #closing this hb8 in my class last week.If you didn't here's a recap:I've been joking around with this hb8 for a few months now,but I never tried to # close because she knew that I didn't have a phone.She had been giving me ioi's like crazy until today,but I'll get to that in a second.It happened on friday:She mouthed out "I want to fuck you" to me in class and told me to come to her.I said"No,you come to me"and she did.I pulled out my phone and she took it from me and called my phone so she would have my # and vice versa.So I sent her about 25 texts on Friday,4 on Saturday,none yesterday and about 10 today being c/f and just using fluff talk.I think I overdid it,as she doesn't flirt as much with me anymore.I Haven't called her yet.Should I or is it too late?And what should I talk to her about?

Woah, that sounds excessive with the texting.

You came off as needy. If she's been sending you IOIs for a few months and you haven't acted, she probably thought of you as a challenge. What you've essentially done is reverse roles with her. Now SHE'S the challenge. I generally send a 3-4 texts before saying "I'm a little busy, but I'll give you a call when I got a minute. I hope you're not always this needy!' Maybe in not those exact words, but you get the idea. Be in control of the situation. By texting her 25-odd times a day, you're being her little toy and allowing her to play her game with you. Just because she said she wanted to fuck you doesn't mean she will. It's a test, and by texting her so often you're response came off as "really?! when! let's do it!". No big deal, just learn from it.

Also, you should have called. I personally always call before texting. Every AFC out there is going to text her (I know, I know some PUAs have text methods, but I don't like it). Have the balls to call.

I still think you can limit the damage and salvage something. I DEFINITELY would not contact her, or at the very least not text her as much. Wait to see how she responds for a couple days, if nothing, then send her a slight neg text. Take it from there and game as usual. Keep us posted.

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E: It doesn’t matter what I think
Ari: It does matter what you think. What are you talking about, you’re part of the team baby, come on. I mean I gotta know what you think so I can get you to think what I think.

Well,I saw her twice at school today,and she was back to flirting with me again.She called my name 3 times before class when I was walking with my friend and I pretended to be too busy to answer her and I finally did when she took the chips out of my hand that I was holding.From there,I was back to being c/f.I ignored her all class and then towards the end she tried to get my attention and wave at me.I'm thinking about calling her tonight.Should I and what should I do from here?

don't text so much, but i'd say after this class situation you have it all kinds of locked up! call her tonight! quit draggin your feet, go do something with her

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Yeah definitely give her a call. Sounds like an easy close, just don't let her get the upper hand!

Good luck!

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E: It doesn’t matter what I think
Ari: It does matter what you think. What are you talking about, you’re part of the team baby, come on. I mean I gotta know what you think so I can get you to think what I think.

If you were me you would have Fucked this chick the same night she gave you her number.

Stop playin around and just do it!!!!! Invite her over your place

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What time should I call her?I didn't have time today because I had a wrestling tournament today.Another thing that sucks is that I don't have my liscense yet so that kind of limits what I can do for a few more months(Till May)