Hey guys, i just turned 20 and I'm still a kissless, dateless, virgin. TBH with you guys, it's only very recently I've even started hanging out with other guys let alone talking to girls. So yeah, i've started to study the game in order to help me develop the social skills i'm sorely lacking. Anyway, it's nice to meet you and i look forward to learning from you guys.

Hi darkrein , don't worry too much , we all have to start from somewhere and its good your willing to change . What's your story ? How did you end up like this ? And what's your long term objectives ?


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You're in a good spot to "pick up" a great deal of useful information. Just read the FAQ, the terms FAQ, and start trolling around. The topics and stickys are pretty well organized. Iv'e only been on this forum for a little bit and have really just scratched the surface. I learn something new every day on here. The more points of view and sources of information you have, the easier it will be to set your frame for the outcome you want.

"Knowledge is power. Use it well."

IDK why, but ever since elementary school i stopped hanging out with people. I've always had a group of "school friends" but until this year, i never really hung out with people outside of school. I was always terrified i would go out and people would hate me, so before i knew it my high school years were over and i was left with a nearly non existent social life. Basically, i would like to use the info here to
1. get over my fear of women
2.go on a dates
3.eventually find a long term girlfriend.

For me it was a different story, I seemed more than fine to make friends with other guys, but I never found the courage to approach and even make friends with girls. I'm hoping to change it this summer as i really need to develop into a man. How far through the game have you read ? I'm guessing you are from the states right ?


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This is a great place to learn how to do exactly that. You have already completed the first step which is defining your objectives. I reccomend checking out the newbie mission sticky and trying it out. I was personally amazed at my own results. I'ts a great confidence booster. I'm still working to keep that frame every day. When you are looking people in the eye with a smile and saying hi remember that they are seeing you for the first time too. Even if its a person you pass by every day, when you keep your head up and act like "you don't know me, but you should " they will notice you in a whole different way.

I've finished the game, and i just moved on to The Natural and Feel the fear and do it anyway. So i guess were in the same boat when it comes to women? i guess the first step is interacting with as many girls as possible right? And yes, i am from the US i live on long island in NY. I'm guessing from the fact that you called it "the states" you live outside the US?

Oh ok , and yeah you guessed right, I'm from London. I think I might try out the natural and feel the fear and do it anyway, sound like an interesting read. Yeah, I need to work on my confidence so much , its depth below of what it should be. Have you met any pua's in NY or gone to any of the bootcamps running there?

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