Pua's

Ok so I live in Australia and am traveling usa and canada for a year, which should be a good dhv when I get home. Heaps to talk about. Basically I left with a few chicks that id like to sleep with but im friends with and im wondering how to come back and not slip into the friend zone. Should I try keep in contact or just go cold? I dont want to seem needy if im messaging them first. And so it seems ive "changed". I was just planning on lots of kino and escalting from there and actually making a move but id appreciate any tips. I know ones attracted to me I was just too "nice guy" the other is probably the same. Need more cocky funny and more teasing I think.

Thanks to those who reply,
Alex

Bump?????

If they are attracted to you, are you thinking you are too "nice guy" aka scared to make the move - or did they blow you off saying you are too nice, etc.? If it is the latter, I feel the attraction isn't "there."

Either way, while you are traveling - post LOTS of pictures and PUA statuses. Talk about the "women" you "meet" in USA and how they are better than those at ____, ____ and ____ than those in Australia (this will make them want to qualify themselves either on FB or in person when you return).

This also would allow you to go back home and run the routine of "since I went to america I can see the women in Australia are horrible at at least 4 things..."

Girl: "oh really what?"
You: "First off, they are better drivers."
Girl: "oh?!"
You: "Secondly, you guys can't handle your alcohol as good as them, as I can clearly see."
You: "Thirdly, they are far better kissers."
Girl: "Are not!"
You: "Well I have yet to be proven wrong."
(makes out) - either leave and tell her the 4th later, or go with it now
You: "And finally, man are they far better in bed than women here."
Girl: "That is wrong!"
You: "Well you have only proven me wrong on 1 thing so far anyways."

Um.. do not put the freezing out method on your friends, even if you don't get with them, they are still your friends. Though, do not be over generous with them. Hell, for the girls at college I would be super nice to, buy drinks at bars, buy the "late night pizza" etc. but now I don't do ANYTHING for women. In fact, I make them buy for me, and it works - kinda funny and saves me money.

Kino escalation is a great thing period, so continue to do that. Make fun of them a bit more, nothing too much imo. It shouldn't be hard for you to move out of the friend zone, and with the kino escalation thing, just go with it when you think the moment is right. Who knows - maybe they have been wanting it all along, you were just to scared.

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Wow such good info.
I think theres attraction there because one night out clubbing Em grabbed me and was like can I kiss you im like sure and we kissed. I asked why and she said her and her mate had a bet who could kiss a guy first. Then her mate asked me if she coulf kiss me too and pretty much grabbed me and kissed me. So then em wasn't too impressed. I also took her to the movies before I left aus but we both knew I was leaving soon so I think she just didn't bother with anything more.
So thats the 7/10 id love to get with.

The other is a popular girl and always goes on how perfect I am and how much she loves me but seems im in the friend zone. Trouble is its hard to leave the initianing of conversation up to her cause it hardly happens. But when we do hang its always hugs and holdin hands. Shes a 9 and bit intimidating to go for something more. Will try when im back home. For now though its gaming the canadians.

Thanks heaps for the tips makes alot of sense and ill be using them for sure when I get home.

Alex

I agree with James theory, but his specific method "hypothetical conversation" is transparent and most girls will see right through it.

Come to the States and enjoy yourself. Don't specifically worry about posting pictures "with girls" but rather pictures of you enjoying yourself (if there are girls in the pictures that's just bonus). Make friends with girls here which should be easy because they will love your accent. Add a couple of American/Canadian Girls to your FB friends list (Not too many but maybe 20-25 total) and add some guys too, also spread it out over a several month timeframe. This will show that you are making many new "female" friends without actually having to say it. Trust me, the girls back home will notice!

Make wall posts that are non-specific "Montreal rocks, such a great time with new friends" will be enough to make your friends back home wonder what you mean (Do not fill in the blanks) just let their minds wander.

Couple of DHV stories, some mysterious wall posts, new FB friends, and pictures (not too many) and you will have set things up nicely for your return to Asutralia.

Remeber that if you are spending all of your time on FB then you must not be having that much fun, because if you were having fun you would be way too busy for FB. Make it only a couple of posts a week unless you want to do a "check-in" at some amazing landmark or event.

Enjoy your time in the States, if you make it down to Florida hit me up!

Peace...

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Yeah have been mixing with the locals met a few girls. Slept with an ex stripper in ohio haha also been posting pictures and that and will continue. I know the hypothetical conversations may or may not go that way but gives me something to say that I can always try. We will be in Florida sometime over the next two years. I can always use it on us girls too saying aussie girls do it better etc.