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Hello guys, i have a serious issue which conflicts my entire approach to gaming women. I have trouble validating the loss of my virginity. I am not ashamed about being a virgin even though i am in my mid-20's. I was ashamed in my late teens and early 20's but i am a rational human being and understand that losing my virginity is not what the primary goal of a human being should be. However i want to have a connection with someone and gaming girls is the best way to 'weed out' the suitable partners.
The conflict i have alluded too is that i have trouble validating losing my virginity to just any random girl. I am not putting girls on a pedestal but i am placing the concept of sex with a higher value then most men. I think it should be something with an emotional connection and not just some animalistic ritual for pleasure. So my question is that are there any of PUA's out there with a similar agenda or is everyone here focused on just gaming purely to fuck as many girls as possible before they leave this earth.
Thanks for reading
I think you have the wrong attitude if you want to lose your virginity. The problem is that your position sounds a lot like that of girls who like to wait for someone "special". However, gender roles dictate that if you are to get any, you are to be the assertive one, and the one to escalate. You will probably grow old if you wait for your handsome princess in shiny armor to sweep you off your legs and seduce you.
There is nothing wrong with losing your virginity in a one night stand. I lost mine at a fairly late age. I decided that I no longer cared how it was gone, I needed it gone. Got a ONS with a decent looking girl (sex 4 hours after meeting), and eventually we became FBs/friends. Neither of us was really interested in a relationship and, I quickly got distracted by other girls. It wasn't particularly meaningful, and quite honestly I was quite underwhelmed "that's it? that's all sex is?.. well that's shitty... I want some more" I have never once regretted doing it though. It was the launch i needed to be able to start dating normally
The point is, if you want to be able to have a meaningful relationship you need to come in with the experience needed to make it work. At your age your virginity is going to start working against you if girls find out, so you should keep it to yourself any time you meet a girl.
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