OK, I'm FUCKING FRUSTRATED right now and I really just feel like saying forget everything and killing myself. I've been sending messages to girls on a dating site "Plenty of Fish" for practice. Only 8's and up. mostly 9's and 10's. The reason I'm doing it online is because I can't go out where I am living right now (I'll explain) I'm new to this but I've read a lot, taken notes, advice. I only put up my best pics and I made my profile as non generic and interesting as possible. I must have sent out 30 or 40 messages over the course of the past week and NOT A SINGLE HB EVEN GAVE ONE RESPONSE!!!!???? I just deleted my profile. I don't get it. Though I NEVER MENTIONED IT AT ALL, I am paralyzed and am stuck on a 3rd floor apt with really no way down so I have to sarge online until I can move back out. I'm not some muscle bound god; but I've been told I'm goodlooking my whole life and never really had a problem getting girls until a car accident left me unable to walk. What should I try? Apparently, I need opening messages to send to at least get them to respond ONCE.I've also put up an add on CL in which only one ugly chick responded to. What should I do? Do you have any openers so that they will at least RESPOND?

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Sorry man, I don't really have any experience with online sarging, but I imagine it's all a bit of a lottery. You've probably just been unlucky. Keep plugging away with the openers people give you here and just count down the days until you can go out sarging in person. Sorry for the somewhat useless reply. Good luck.

well it sounds as though you need to cool the picking up woman thing for a littile while its not a bad thing and i am sorry for the accident but maybe you should try and read the book the secret or find god or something the accident could of affected you internal way you think of how you look or feel about yourself. Go and find yourself again dont get frustrated about it just get back in the zone and come back stronger good luck man

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I tried online sarging for about a month. and didn't get ANYONE. haha. I had tons of responses, later to learn that they were all from bots.

it's very difficult, but it is totally doable. you just need to work on your game. if this midget in a wheelchair can get lots of dates, then you should be able to too, you just need to practice more.



I guarantee that this is possible for you to do. If you don't believe me, here is some motivation. scroll down to the vid
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good luck man. we're here to help you out

I don´t normally do online sarging but i heard that a good thing to do is to send a message like: Hey! Wow, youre absolutely gorgeous, what a goddess, too bad youre not my type or youd be soo mine...

Try that...

I appreciate the advice but one thing: I walked for over 26 years and in a split sec. it was ripped away from me. Of course it destroyed me and affected the way I see and feel about myself, there would be a problem if it didn't! However, that said, this isn't about the paralysis; it's been 2 years. I don't need to find God or any shit like that. I'm asking about openers and things I can use while I practice sarging online because the material I know isn't working. Thanks again, and any more openers tips, I'd appreciate!

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well unless you are serious about killing yourself, thats not the way to go about asking for help

first of all give us examples of what openers you are using and we can go from there

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well by no way I can correlate my self experience to yours , but at the end of the day we have a thing in common , we both have balls and need to get them in the right nest.

what I saw here at the forum from the past like 2 to 3 weeks is that most guys here will say that online sarging is not that good and it will get you the uncomfortable zone because there is no social interaction.

I think thats true , I tried online sarging and yeah I got a few replies and I did think it was heart warming but majority I dont advise it because you cannot really understand what went wrong with your sarge.

so best advice is , rather than your sitting figuring out why some money-making website is not aiding you a full service or their members are total cheap sticks, learn the game . read this forum over and over you will find many great stuff , dont even stick around here go read something elsewhere.

so that just when the time is right you have your material canned and you can review and so on.

PS: im watching the VH1 PUA show its a great tipper and a great enjoy to watch

Best Regards,
Arman

the only way i can imagine online sarging to work is if you are networking online, and go totally platonic, and then if you ever get the chance to meet to sort out whatever it is you were networking about then you could start your game properly.

otherwise for girls i guess theres too many negative connotations with being sarged online

check out the online sarging section in the main menu of the forum

No, I wasn't being serious about killing myself. Everyone gets frustrated sometimes and is just like "I'm gonna kill myself if this doesn't ...!!" but I think it might be a good idea just to learn more for when I can go out sarging than practicing on the internet. The way I was coming at them was not mentioning their looks. for example "You seem like a really nice girl. I noticed you put down you like to write, what do you write?" that is one I used. I tried the "Wow, your really beautiful too bad you aren't my type" one but I don't know if it worked yet...

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I just created a fake account(well not completely fake) on Plenty of Fish to check it out. Be careful which girls your talking to it shows their last log on day lot say over 30days ago which means they probably dont check it often an probably let their emails pile up.
I suppose later on I'll add some real photos and see what i can come up with as far as getting responses from women i browse a few girls very few are my type as far as looks go but for experimental purposes I'll see what I can do

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I remember when i first discovered POF i used to send things like 'hey fancy a chat sometime, you seem like a really nice... Im a nice guy bla bla bla' and 'Your gorgeous, you probly already know that but i thought i would let you know'

From my experience, these dont work.

I had some success with simple approach with some local girls like 'hey...', but you need something different from the rest of guys.

I found humor works best, i always got messages like 'thats hilarious'. So give the humour thing ago.

Some girls just thought i was a nutcase, but others eat it up. Not all girls are same. If i thought they looked like a laugh with GSOH, i would mail them. Some will chat for abit then dissappear, others where hooked, but i suppose i ran out of good responses, I would pick things out from their profile and make jokes about it or something totally random. If i think of anything that works for me i'll let you know by PM, i'll also go through my old notes and see what i got, i aint been on POF for a while.

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A HB 8-10 should be negged like hell. Say if you saw her pic. Find out a little flaw in her (just as everone does) for example say if she wears too much make up. Say:
"My God! Is it me or do you wear too much make up?" or have a subject that will leave them curious.
"What the hell--" They will definantly open this and read your letter. Inside your letter you'll put:
"I don't know and I don't wanna seem rude but damn girl! You were too much make up! Or is it the lighting of the picture?" This will create a NEG and plus a soft compliment. Try this! Oh by the way! A girl will love you no matter what your disabilities are. I have depression and alot of women love me. Just a thought of encouragement. Good luck bud! My best wishes are with you! PEACE!

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