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Hello, I am new to PUA and was hoping to get some advice from you guys about this girl that I am interested in. I am very into Bodybuilding (40 mins of am cardio ed, lift 6 days a week, 7 meals a day)...I am very diciplined and have been doing this for some time. I met ths girl at the gym, ofcourse lol, about 2 months ago. In the first couple weeks began to talk to her occasionslly in the gym and found she was very into fitness and followed all the routines that I did (lift/meals) and was very knowledgable. She asked to workout with me and I agreed and that is how I got her number. A couple of days after that We had coffe 1 time during her 30 min lunch break. that following week we texted back and forth all day, wrote on facebook walls ect. Probably like 300 texts back and forth before the week was out, I could tell she was interested. She invited me to eat sushi with her and her sister that next weekend. When that sat came I worked out with her and her sister and then asked about sushi that night and she said she did not want to go now because she did not feel like it.
I was dissappointed and the next day I texted her if she wanted to see a movie, but she declined that because she wanted to watch The Walking dead with her sister. I told her I have nerver been turned down for a tv show before to which she replied I am not turning you down just need a rain check. OK
Then that the week following the rain check she began taking longer and longer to respond to my texts, as it was pretty much instant before, so the change was pretty noticeable. Then it just stopped, i mean a few texts here and there but nothing lke before. I asked her out for coffee again a little while after that and she declined. Didnt talk to her for about a week and one of my firends wives suggested that I tell her that I missed talking to her and wanted to make sure everything was alright. I trusted my friends wife and so I did just that. SHe replied that she missed lifting wirth me too and she though I was mad at her...anyway I thought things might pick up again but they did not.
Maybe a week or two after that She posted on facebook that she was in a relationship with a guy (facebook status thing) I clicked his profile and the dude looks like a skinny meth addict lol, He is the total opposite of me, I thought that she was into muscle but I may have been wrong
So from then to now, its been the same, Ill text her every now and then with something funny or something to do with working out. I also see her in the gym every weekend, and some days during the week. I saw her yesterday (she knows what time come in) She was wearing the tightest shorts I have seen lol. She has an awesome ass and legs and she looked down right sexy. For the past whle I play it cool and just say a quick hello and whats up, maybe a goodbye..but mostly ignore her.
After reading some of the forums on here I found several mstakes that I made-
No kino/too much texting/should have intiated the phone call-although I was planning on doing that for the sushi thing t just burnt out too quick. Did not have any cocky/funny lines lol love those.
I really liked her and she through me for a big loop...do I have any cards left to play
Thanks for your help
Yeah you kinda ran that one into the ground. I'm going to say go ahead and move onto the next one. There are 7.2 billion people on this planet. Half of them are female. Just find another one.
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