Hey Guys,

I'm a total newb to this stuff, so I'm just going to start right out with it:

Rules for the challenge:

1. Open at least 10 woman every day (street, bar, club, subway etc. )
2. Go out every night that's possible (travel days are exempt as long as I approach in the airport or wherever I can)
3. Weekdays, I have to be back home by latest 1:30am so I can go to bed and get to work in time
4. Eat healthy throughout the challenge
5.. Workout minimum 4 days/week
6. Meditate twice/day

Here it goes- also, if I do enough approaches during the day, I don't have to go out at night but going out at night would still be ideal.

I'm a beginner so my main focuses for this 30 day challenge:

1. Get my approaches in
2. Don't react to blowouts
3. See what happens

Went out today around 3:30 and did some daygame for a couple hours and also bought some clothes. There's a really great couple streets near where I live that are within walking distance that seem to have an incredible amount of very high quality girls.

Went out with my wing and approached ten girls.

# closed 3 of them

All three were very fucking hot.

The first one was a 7.5 or 8

The second one was a straight 9

The last one was a 9 (slightly older but so so hot)

I was being very laid back and casual in my daygame. The first approach I did, I was pretty nervous and kinda just spit out some shit. I was like, "Hey what's your name" and I could feel it was rushed and my eye contact was probably not super dialed in and I felt uncomfrotable in my own skin saying it- I was out of state but I was going to go through the process of building momentum, even in the daytime. I felt nervous but stuck it out for a couple minutes and she was receptive but actually I just didn't think she was at hot, up close, as she was from far away... so I bailed even though she was investing and asking me questions

2nd,3rd,4th,5th were all blowouts

At this point I was feeling a little more in state, i was letting the blowouts actually help me build momentum.


6th set- She passed me by and I turned around, tapped her on the shoulder and said, "Hey you're cut I wanted to say hi" she stops and we chat for about 3.5 minutes. I # close and seed a date for sometime this coming week. I'd say it was kind of solid but not amazing... I basically would stop them with a direct line like the one above and then would just go into "chode" conversation for a couple minutes and then say that I had to run and go for the # close

7th set- she walked past me and my wing and I look at my wing and just go, "Should I?" and he goes, "Of course". I turn around and catch up to her and tap her on the shoulder and she turns around and I take a small step back and tell her, "Hey you're really cute, I had to say hi" and she's like, "Aww thanks!" and I go right into chode quesitons, "What's your name", "What do you do" but I kinda add a twist to it- add some slight humor to what I'm asking and I'm getting a little more relaxed so I can feel that "space" developing where I actually have time to relax and feel out the situation and figure out what I *want* to do, as opposed to what I'm urged to do becuase I feel nervous. Anyway, my physicality was VERY POOR in all of my day game sets, although, it is daygame so I'm not sure what level of physicality is appropriate but I certainly could have done more. I joked around with this girl and asked her questions and made statements like, "So what do you do... tell me something cool- I mean.. you're cute but tell me something" and then she got kinda flustered and was like, "Sorry, I'm a hairdresser and so I talk all day so I'm just kind of flustered right now" and then I talk to her about that for a while... we just shoot the shit, I grab the # and seed a meetup and she seems down

8th and 9th sets were blowouts

10th set: This one was interesting- went up with the same opener as before and she was receptive and din't say anything about a bf and we ended up walking together and then she was going into Saphora so I just went in with her and talked in there and chilled for like 15 minutes while she got some shampoo. I just shot the shit with her- again, my physicality was lacking- I gave her a high five and some other pussy shit but nothing serious- just chilled out- again, this girl was a serious stunner (along with the girl from the 7th set) but she was fun and easy to talk to but when we got outside, I was like, "Give me your phone" so she gives it to me and I start to enter my # into her phone and she says something about how she has a bf and I'm like, "Oh would your bf be pissed if we had hot sex" and she goes, "Yeah- I actually don't do that anymore" and I'm like, "What.. have hotsex? Do you have like really lame sex or something" and she's like, "No I'm just too old to have sex with guys who aren't my bf, I can't do that anymore"

Anyway- I texted myself from her # and she left and as she was leaving I say, "Let's hang out sometime" and she just kinda looks behind her and is like, "Yeah, maybe" so we'll see- I don't think the bf thing is a big deal or she may have mentioned it sooner but wtvr.

Day Game Notes:

1. Build momentum- there are unlimited amount of girls in daygame, so just keep approaching until you reach the indifference threshold.
2. My daygame was very very "friendly"... not sure how to make it more sexually charged during the daytime. I noticed that I wasn't getting hard when I was talking to these insanely attractive girls (legit I approached almost all 8s or hotter). So I want to work on this- somehow making my daygame slightly more boss-daddy so that they aren't left wondering what my intentions are
3. I had almost zero physicality in my daygame- I basically would approach and chat for a bit and then at the end I would hug the girl but during the actual conversation there would be almost no physical contact- maybe a high-five or something random like that but no deliberate, "I am going to fuck you" phsyicality- not sure where the line is in daygame but I feel like it's pretty clear that I didn't have enough physicality in today's approaches- although, it was relatively easy to # close, as long as I was able to stop the girl
4. If I can stop the girl, there's a good chance I'll get her #. The gals who I didn't # close were all ones where I wasn't able to stop them
5. I want to work on building attraction during daygame- not sure how to go about doing this... I think that will come with time, as I become more certain in my actions and more concrete in my approach

Went out last night to a high-end venue (Rihanna was there which was kinda cool). It was a really small, kinda intimate venue)

Anyway my wing and I get in and we just chill out for a bit and then I walk to the back and he approaches a big group and I come in 2nd and we chat with the 2 guys of the group and then my wing approaches some girl and is in set with her for a while.

I just kinda chill and dance for a while and then I go back to the main room and the girl who my buddy approached has a bunch of friends and I chat with one of them for a while and end up isolating this one girl and some of her friends try to pull her away (not on purpose more just like they wanted to chill with her, not in a "I'm trying to get you away from this creeper" sort of way) but I just chill out and remain calm and keep talking with her and she stays put. She's trying to organize a HUGE table of people- like a table for like over 20-30 people which is a ton. So she goes upstairs and I do some more approaches

I was getting blown out a ton at this place. It was weird because inside the venue, I was getting blown out but outside the venue, girls were hooking- it was odd.

Anyway- take a walk outside and as I'm walking back in I see the girl who I had hooked earlier and she grabs me and tells me that I should join their table in the back, I chat with her for a bit longer and grab her # and tell her we should chill, she's into it- i tell her I'm going to go back downstairs but that i'd catch her later.

Head back downstairs and it was pretty much all blowouts.

End of the night, I approach a blonde model sitting at one of the tables. She grabs my hand and I tell her to scoot over and I sit next to her and chill for a bit and again, I go into really chode verbals- I need to express myself more and I can see her getting bored and I say something and go for the # and she gives me it, I text it and it's the wrong one and I'm like, "Oh I think you gave me the wrong #" and then she gives me the right one... haha so yeah, probably not too solid

I also feel like I was slightly "shaken up" by a lot of these 9s talking to me. It's not like I've just sat on my ass for the first couple decades of my lifebut I would say that I haven't had a lot of communication with 9s+ and in the past day, I already had more interaction with these high-quality girls, than I had in pretty much the rest of my life and really I just attribute that to me making a conscious effort to talk to them- I mean, if you make a point to hit up stunners, you will end up hanging out with stunners

Anyway- I was a little off-put by the fact that some of these gals were having lengthy convos with me, so I think that put me in my head a little or not even in my head but just put me in a slightly stifled place, where I wasn't completely and totally expressing myself.

"There's no reason I'm not enough"

I was really happy with just getting out though and getting my approaches in. Tonight I want to be even more of an approach machine- I need to do this for the first couple days just to snap myself into macro momentum and not give a fuck.

Nightgame Notes:

1. I wasn't committing to my approaches, I was going in half-ass and this was causing the girls to blow me out.
2. Verbals were stifled- I was asking chode questions, wasn't being expressive in what I said, wasn't talking about anything that excited me
3. I had very little physicality. I was hardly touching the girls I was talking to, I need to be much more physical, right off the bat. BE MORE PHYSICAL.
4. Didn't approach girls at tables as much as I would have liked to
5. DIdn't go in direct as much as I would have wanted to. I was going in with a super high-energy vibe, which would hook a lot but it isn't the vibe I want to start out with.
6. This goes along with #3 but I also need to dance with girls more. My dance game is pretty off and I need to get that sorted out. Just grab girls and take them to the dance floor and get it tight get it right.

I want to work on just a couple things for next 7 days that I go out. I'm not going to worry about fucking the girl or where the interaction is going, I'm simply going to focus on working on these few points:

1. Catching myself when I'm about to ask a question and make it into a statement of some kind- "where are you from?"----> "you look like you're from the south" "What do you do"-----> "You look like you used to model"

2. Expressing myself through stories, impersonations, roleplays

3. Physicality Games: Thumb Wars, High-Fives, Back-Writing,

4. Not getting stuck after the opener- shifting immediately to something else. I noticed that a lot of times, after the opener, I'd immediately go and start asking chode questions, which takes a lot of value, instead of giving value- so if I can just switch those questions to statements and then exaggerate those statements and play off of them, I can replace a low-value trait with a higher-value trait

This seems really analytical but asking chode questions right after the opener is a huge habbit I noticed and I think it's just that- a habit. It's not something I activeyl want to do. I do it because in the moment, i'm unsure of what to do... so now I know what to do, I can take that moment where I would have asked a question and make a statement instead and then exaggerate and tease her on the answer and then go into a story or a roleplay... just get things going

So I'm just going to focus on these 4 aspects of my game for the next week and see how it goes. I'm obviously not going to bail out of sets unnecessarily but this is going to be my main focus.

My goal is to actually start to take what I'm doing and look at the patterns and isolate the good and bad and systematically remove the bad- that stuff that I KNOW is low-value. Just flat-out remove it as best I can or at least make my best effort to remove it, when I can and to change the way I act and treat myself to be in line with that as well.

Starting with basic stuff like not making questions- I've gotten away with this stuff in the past and even now but there is no reason for it to be there, so I'm going to remove it and then systematically replace it with statements and stories and roleplays

Went out tonight and had a great night because I took the sticking points I wanted to work on and executed it in field and as a bonus, got the result I was looking for. I was seriously focused on working on my sticking points and actually did it, which was very cool.

I hit up another high-end venue tonight and immediately when I arrive, my wing is in set with 2 swedish girls, so I go up and introduce myself and talk to the one he's not interested in. I immediately start by making statements where I would have, previously, asked questions.

"You look like your from xyxy" instead of "where are you from"... but even with this in mind, I still found myself asking some basic questions, so I want to continue to make best effort to get away from that

Additionally, I immediately was telling storys. I have one that I used in every set and it's the story I turn to when I'm asked where I'm from and I think over time I can get pretty good at my delivery.. it's a real story I just happened to use it a lot and realized it was a great way of explaining where I'm from/mychildhood etc.

I want to work on making observational humor- so it's great to turn questions into statements, but I can take this another step further and change the statements I'm making to be based around observational humor which is more interesting and funnier than chode questions converted into statements. But I can focus on that next week.

For the next 6 days, now, I am still going to continue to work on making questions into statements, using stories, roleplays, impersonations and using physical games- thumb wars, back-writing, high-fives, and doing all of this with a "dominating" vibe- "teaching" the girl how to play the different games and talking to them as if I'm teaching them something

Last night I was using slightly more physicality but I want to do this even more- there was one girl who I hooked where I wasn't using physicality at all- It's in this situation that I should have gone into some of the cooler games- like back-writing or thumb wars etc. - hell, I could make a cool little routine out of this... I'm not a "routine" guy but even if that's the case, there are certain things that are just fucking FUN to do and so I might as well do them a lot

I guess what I'm doing here is really focusing in on and working to improve my "attraction" game with the obvious goal being that you shouldn't ever have to ask a girl for her #- your attraction game should be on point enough that she's asking you for it. This is not JUST attraction game though, this also means using the proper amount of disinterest/interest, as well as microcalibrating properly. I actually think my microcalibration is pretty much on point, as well as my interest/disinterest- I'll work on this in the future but as I've said a lot- the next six days I really want to just solely focus on those other goals and not worry about the rest. I might even do that for an entire month... I basically wanna get those couple sticking points I listed, down pat, and then move on to other shit.

Anyway- swedish set is going okay but then three more friends come and me and my wing lose the set after about 10 minutes

Next set I'm talking with two gals who seem slightly interested but it was still early and I was warming up.. I was talking softly and not speaking clearly but I was making an effort to work on my sticking points which was great. I sit down with them for a bit but my wing comes over and says that we're bouncing to another club so I leave

We end up not bouncing

1st Solid Set- 7.5/8: Walk over to the other side of the rooftop and look behind me and there's this girl with these golden shoulder pads and I walk up and say something (it wasn't direct- it was some kind of situational opener). This was my best set of the night. I immediately launched into stories about my childhood, my lifestyle and what I love to do- then did some qualification stuff and asked her what she does and also through in some slight negative statements but calibrated with humor

For example: Me: "You know, we're NEVER going to get along" Her: "What.. why.. I thought we were having a good conversation" Me: "It's the SHOULDER PADS girl - I just can't deal with those" - that comment releases the tension that's built up with the first statement - also important that I didn't say this right off the bat but I said it after I had already reached the hook point- where she was genuinely interested in my story and I had demonstrated enough value for this kind of "neg" to hit her properly

Got physical with her too- grabbing her right at the shoulders and shaking her a bit, like, "Why'd you make it RAIN girl" and saying other random dumb shit that she obviously didn't actually make happen but it gives me a playful/dominant excuse to be physical with her

Then also used qualification to get her to invest enough that it wasn't just PURELY attraction- simply at one point said, "Okay, enough about me, tell me something about yourself" and then she went off about how she loves to bike, which I geninely found awesome becuase the other weekend I rented a bike and was cruisin it all around town- so I connected with her about that.

Then I tell her to come with me while I get a water and she says that she's with her friends but for me to come back to where she's standing (she says this multiple times) so I say that's cool and head off to grab my water (giving her space and showing that I'm not afraid to walk) so I leave and go to get my water and then about a minute later, while I was facing the bar, apparently the girl literally RUNS up to me from where she was standing (my roommate was watching and told me later that it was hilarious cause she literally like sprinted towards me) and she's like, "Actually my friends are going over *there*" and points to the other side of the roof and then I'm like, "okay cool" and she pauses and just kinda looks at me and goes, "Uhm well, should we exchange numbers" and I tell her "sure, we can do that"

And then I put my # in her phone and text myself, "Jill think your sexy" and we laugh about that- I also continue to be physical with her in a dominating way and continue to tease her about her golden shoulderpads.. She heads off.

I text her a smiley face a bit later to which she immediately responds with a winky face (lol I don't even know what that means)

It starts to rain a bit and I chat with a few more sets but nothing spectacular- there were a lot of foreigners at this place and I seem to have some slight issues with foreigners who can't understand me when I speak.

2nd Solid Set- HB8: Head back into the tent and open some more foriengers and then there's two girls standing next to me from seattle and I open them and the uglier one basically passes me off to the hotter one and I chat with this 2set for a while. This set I executed the gameplan really well... I made statements and told stories- which in and of itself was better than I did yesterday. Additionally, I was very expressive of my internal state and had super good eye contact. My delivery is pretty solid.

I still need to incorporate roleplays into my game- so tonight, I'm going to incorporate at least one roleplay- I can start with my opener, go into a couple stories, get physical and use physicality as an avenue into some form of roleplay- but no matter what I'm going to really focus on adding in roleplays to my game tonight.

Anyway- this went pretty well, I could feel her continually getting closer to me- like she would get really close to me and at one point I put my arm around her and she was diggin it and leaning into me but the tough part about 2sets is that girls are very aware of when their friends are feeling awkward and it was clear that because it was a 2set and me and my girl were so locked in, and her friend was in New York SOLELY to visit her, that she needed to pay attention to her friend, so she was like, "We're going to go downstairs and get some drinks" and then she and I both kinda lingered (Secretly I was hoping that she would go to grab my digits- I really thought I had enough attraction for that to happen at this point but doesn't really matter- just a slight investment on my part) and I was holding her hand and neither of us was letting go and I go, "Should we exchange numbers" and she agrees, so I take her # and then like 15 minutes later I text her my name and she texts me back "hey" and then later texts me "I'm outside again" but I had gone home at that point so never responded.

Both #'s I got seem to be soild but we'll see, oftentimes these #'s flake the most, from what I've read from other people... But I'm new to this so I'm just going through the motions and the process and trying to really focus my efforts.

Had one more interesting set with a swedish 8/8.5 who is a flight stewerdess- we kissed and then she was like, "What are you doing after this" and I didn't really have a good answer- then her friend came over and itnerrupted us and they all bounced... I had reached the hook point but it was still a little too early for a disruption to come in like that- at some point in the future I will focus on how to properly handle this situation but I don't really care right now.

I also just had a TON of fun- I was dancing by myself for a good 20 minutes or so haha just totally enjoying being there and I kept noticing that I was having "moments" that I loved- Like I kept telling people, "Wow, this is a great MOMENT" and it was cool to experience that and be able to enjoy where I was. Had a total blast with my wing- good shit.

Nightgame Notes:
1. Improved my verbals from previous night- primarily through converting questions to statements and telling stories (still have to work on the other conversational techniques I noted)
2. Improved my physicality a bit
3. Still need to work on incorporating the physicality games
4. I need to continually eliminate questions from my shit
5. I want to also eliminate all dlv's from my stories, entirely and make sure I'm imbedding DHV's into all of my stories
6. I need to come up with one more story before I go out tonight, as I was really realiant on one of them- maybe I'll make one more story about why I moved out to New York (basically, what this means is take the truth and then just putting it tgoether in a way that conveys it in an enjoyable way- I have no intentions of just making shit up)
7. Make sure to try and get proper transitions between stories and physicality games
8. Continue to focus soleley on the sticking points for this week- let the other stuff just be what it is... I want to isolate this one set of variables and work on it while leaving everything else, as is, for the time being.

Went out last night and ended up meeting up with a bunch of friends so I didn't do too much actual gaming cause I hadn't seen these guys in forever so I wanted to hang out with them.

I opened one girl by going up to her and her friend and saying, "You both look like you've been here before" and she laughed and assumed I was being sarcastic because they were very european (I wasn't being sarcastic- was just looking for an excuse to talk to them but I rolled with it because her interpretation gave me higher value) they were cracking up at a lot of what I was saying, so I knew their BT was pretty high but when I went into my grounding story, she didn't really react to it the way most girls do, it was as if she could tell it was kinda "practiced" but she was interested, in that she wasn't leaving and I was being fun and shit and then my buddy goes to take a picture of us and she's like, "Why am I taking a photo with a total stranger" and like tries to get out of the pic-- to which I don't really react

And she doesn't go anywhere and then I start to tell a story about going ziplining through teh rainforest in costa-rica (which is true) and she calls me out and is like, "Oh is this the story you tell every night when you're here" hahaha and I just throw up my hands and i'm like, "You caught me" and then we joke about it a bit more and then she tells me to continue telling the story

I felt like there was too much of a "fun-to-fun" vibe going on as opposed to "male-female" vibe. She kept saying she thought I was "funny" which is an ioi I guess

I also realize, upon reflection, that I was caring way too much about the "vibe" of the interaction and whether she was giving me "ioi's" or "Iod's"- now, don't get me wrong, I think it's important to pay attention to those, in order to respond accordingly with disinterest etc. but, especially with what I'm aiming for right now, I think I just want to continue to focus on verbals and making sure that I'm expressing myself fullly, without paying any attention to anything else

But yeah, I mean she kept shit testing me but she wasn't leaving, even though her friend had already left- also, she freaed out when I said she was 29 and then she told me she was 28... lmao me calling her 29 wasn't rude at all, it was as if she just wanted to call me an asshole for no reason

I tried not to react to this and just be the "Ghost" but it bothered me just because it was annoying because it wasn't a rude comment at all and she responded to it so weird

So I went out last night and was really focused on practicing the new DHV story that I had written up.

Went to a very high-end bar/club last night- it's probably the best Sunday party in the entire city, which means very high quality girls.

Anyway- I post up at the bar and an HB8 comes over and stands next to me to order a drink and I lean over and say, "You look like you've been here before" and this gets her talking and I immediately transition from that to my DHV story (new-dhv-story-i-just-wrote-let-me-know- ... 62209.html)- it's the story that I posted in the first post in that thread.

As I'm telling this story, HB8 is touching me and laughing so it's clear I'm building attraction but then just as I'm about to finish the story, one of her guy friends walks in and is standing right next to us and she just gets up and leaves to go say hi to him, without even really saying anything to me.

I found this interesting because it was really clear to me that she was attracted and she was giving me plenty of IOI's but then the second the obstacle came into view, she just left without any hesitation.. I think part of the issue here is that my dhv story was too long- I need to break it up so that I'm not just telling a single story for 5 minutes.

That's part of the issue with building attraction- it's really hard to deal with obstacles if they come into the set because at first, I don't telegraph interest and I also don't get her to invest- I'm simply demonstrating value and so it's very easy for the girl to be like, "Okay cool so this guy is high value and I'm attracted but my friends are over there so I'm going to leave"

So what I got was a couple HBs doing this where it was clear they were interested and that I was building attraction but then the second a distraction came- they were gone.


2nd set: HB 8.5- she was standing to my right and I leaned over and again opened with, "You look like you've been here before" and she showed disinterest at first, so I back-turned and then rotated back to face her and negged her and then went into my dhv routine and again she was engaged and listening but then her friend came up and she was like, "I'm going to go to the back room with my friend" and then she asked my name and left

3rd set: HB 8 (Very unique looking girl)- Opened with, "You look like a New Yorker" and then said "It must be becuase you're dressed so elegant" and then she gave me a shittest and goes, "Are you saying that because I'm black?" and I respond and go, "No- I'm saying it's cause you're from New York" and just laugh at her a little and then she laughs and asks where I'm from and I go, "California- it's why I'm dressed in a tshirt" (I was wearing a trendy white tshirt with a scarf and nice jeans- kinda that "Hipster" look) so then I bridge into my DHV routine and she's really into it and touching me a LOT and laughing

And then when I get to the part about the naked chicks she kinda freaks out a little (was an interesting reaction-nobody else reacted to it like this)- anyway, I body rock and backturn her and then reenage after a couple seconds and say, "As I was saying, before I was rudely interrupted..." and again she's ilke seriously touching me and also had moved from standing in front of me to standing next to me and her girlfriend had come over and hadn't taken her away and they had "exchanged eye contact" so I'm assuming that my girl had girl-coded her that I was cool... anyway- her guy friend shows up and then their entire crew leaves and she just bounces

4th set: Seated HB9- Approach with, "You look like you've been here before" and then sit down next to her (I should have given a false time constraint here because I had approached her- the other sets were all HB's who had come to MY location, so I didn't need to give a false time constraint because it was already "my territory" sotospeak and they were the ones coming to where I was standing)

Anyway- go into my DHV story but this time, I can tell she's just not that interested for whatever reason- would be interesting to see what would have happened if I had given a false time constraint- will remember to do this moving forward- any set that I approach I will add a false time constraint

Anyway- I was able to work on my story telling better and I've def. moved on from just going into "Chode Questions Mode" which is great.

I'll be going out and doing daygame in a couple hours and then hopefully also going out tonight and I'm going to continue to practice just engaging girls with my DHV stories but I want to also add in more roleplays/physcal games but I have to get past this first story... so I'm going to shorten it so that I can get her to invest a little- also I want to add in a neg or two- although I'm a pretty high-value guy, so I'm a little nervous to use these, especially right off the bat but I'll go for it

I'm going to focus on the following for today/tonight:

1. Opening
-Using false time constraint
-Using a neg
2. Attraction
-Using MULTIPLE short stories that are interlaced
-Using roleplays
-physical games (thumbwars etc.)

I really am just focusing on my conversation skills at this point. I am extremely charasmatic and have great delivery but I just never really knew what to say before, so just engaging in fun/varied conversation is a great start for me

Went out and daygamed today.

Hit up a couple girls but I'll just write up the most memorable set

HB 7.5: Approached by telling her she was dressed so unique that I had to say hi and then followed it with, "You look like a New Yorker" and she is receptive and accepts the conversation and says she's not and that she's actually from iceland and then I find a lock-in location against a wall and once I'm there, I go into my DHV story about the hottub in the club and then afterwards I ask her what the coolest thing about her is and she says, "I don't know, I can't really say that about myself... I guess you'll just have to find out!" I should have responded with a soft neg- something like, "I eat girls like you for breakfast, don't even START with me" (Sidenote: I really really like that neg)

Instead- I launch into a different, shorter dhv story and then she starts to volunteer information about her own life and stuff she's done which I then can appreciate

After about 8 minutes, I try for an instadate but she says that she has to meet up with a friend and doesn't want to be late but then suggests that I take her #- so I do that and at this point, I should have added in disinterest of some kind (One of my biggest issues is that I don't know how to show disinterest in a genuine way so I need to learn that next, after I am done working on my conversational skills)

Anyway after this I tell her I can walk with her for a bit but give a false time constraint - seed a date for tomorrow and she keeps saying her schedule is pretty wide-open, which I take as a pretty big ioi


That was the most memorable set of the day. The rest were either mostly blowouts or I didn't get to a hook point where I could tell any DHV story.

Had a solid day at work and then went to the gym, got home and meditated and then went out around 10

I also # closed some girl while I was at work on a conference call which was interesting. She was walking around and I was doing some daygame while on the call and opened her and got the #

Hit up DL and get in and Im by myself, so I grab a water and chat up one of the staff who is kinda interesting looking

Wing comes in and I go over and he opened one a 3 set and I open the other 2 and chat and eventually the other girl in our group leaves me and my girl to keep talking. I tell 3 DHV stories and I can tell she's hooked and attracted so I go to qualify her and she says that she loves the same exact hobby that I had previously told her I was into so I took that as an ioi and told her I thought that was cool

I need to escalate a little more- I've been really good about incorporating my DHV stories into my game but I want to start to really get better at seamlessly entering into them, as well as not asking questions and instead making statements, as well as using more of my physical games

Anyway I ended up # closing her

It's okay though because i wanted to spend 7 days really focusing on my storytelling, which I am doing, so that's fine. And once I get storytelling down, I really want to work on incorporating roleplays... so I'll just continue to really focus on stories, with the understanding that by doing so, for now, my game won't be as dynamic as possible but slowly, as I get more and more comfortable with my story telling, I can become more dynamic and add in roleplays, sound bites, disinterest, qualification etc.


Hit up another bar which was okay and opened a gal there but overall it was just a super slow night but I made it out

Was back home by 1 ....