I read SO MANY posts by PUAs who list being short, poor, and of course (insert race here) as a handicap when it comes to attracting women.

Now growing up through most of my teens, I never saw my race as anything because I only thought of myself as an American. When I first read the PUA forums back in 2008 or so I saw so many posts by Asian men and to a smaller extent Indian men talking about race limiting them, some posts by Black men as well.

Don't know what happened. I can see being short and poor as legitimate handicaps in the pickup world. Yet I want to know, where did race even get a role in all of this? I am talking way before I even joined this forum or learned of forums in the first place.

I never saw my appearance as a bad thing until I started posting on PUA forums where there were countless topics about how bad Indian guys have it with women. As a result, I became the insecure guy you see today. I want to know how this talk even made its way into the community in the first place.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Let's see if i understood. You are now insecure about your 'genetic origins', since you an american for all intents and purposes. Not because of real life experiences, but because something you read online, nevertheless, in a place devoted to guy's that don't know how to behave around women.

Is that is the case, i would say you are a very impressionable fellow, and i am being nice about it...

Well, my real life experience here in the dixie is that if you aren't White you aren't going to get with good looking White women but I am more concerned about other areas of the world since I don't plan on being in the dixie for long.

Also, yes, you understood correctly.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Another paramount's post, about, of course.... ethnicity.

How surprising.

/sarcasm

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

aren't you the guy who hasn't even gotten laid yet?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

How dare you to say that and insult "rightie" and "leftie".

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Despite the convectional wisdom, the grass isn't always greener in the other side of the fence, but one can only hope, i suppose. Mainly if the problem resides within yourself, whish means, you will carry it whatever you go.

Well, what can i say, that's and identity problem, you are very young, eventually you will ad some experience to your life and grow up out of that mind set...

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