Sooo...there is this girl at work, she is a HB9, but she has a boyfriend. I'm getting lots and lots of ioi's, without excessive flirting. Unfortunately I'm falling big time for her..but here is the thing. I know for a fact that she isn't happy with her boyfriend because a good friend of her, who's also my coworker, told me when they had a conversation about their relationships. ( Her friend is a good friend of mine aswell, and my coworker. Target works in another department, coworker/friend is an older woman if that's any important). Still with me ?
That friend/coworker, told me she is definitely interested in me but she never brought it up to her but she can tell by the way she acts and the way she looks at me. Target's boyfriend is her first serious boyfriend.
Soo here is my dillemma. I don't want to be a homewrecker by any means. If she isn't happy with him and we are ment to be, we'll get together eventually right? The shitty thing is I've fallen for her, can't get the girl out of my head. A part of me says I should try to speed things up with her. The other part tells me I should move on, and game other girls. I'm not going to wait for her. I'm new to the game and I had some moderate succes with other women using various techniques. I love how I interact with girls lately, but I cant forget my target.
I allready know what to do in the meantime: start gaming other girls and see where I end up (hopefully forget the target because this sucks big time!). The big question is, should I try to speed up things with my target or leave her alone? In the last case, how can I be still a part of her life without acting needy? I have her phonenumber and we text eachother every now and then.
help me out guys!