So here's the deal. I already spoke with another pua about this, and he gave me some advice but I just wanted to see if anyone else had an opinion.

I met this girl driving at a red light, got her number in 40-50 seconds. I met her to go shopping and get food. I told her to hold into my necklace until I see her again.

I waited too long, like 3-4-5 days, with "Surprise!" And it was stupid and she didn't reply. I called her after that, left a msg and she called me back an hour after. Only problem I wasn't around when she called me and I couldn't call back so it made it look like I missed her call.
I called later on after that and she didn't pick up. So I txted her, "Working?" I waited again and txt'ed her "Hey, I finished up work earlier than I thought and I've been meaning to txt you. What's up?" Yesterday. Still no response.

Summary: Maybe she txt'ed back and I didn't get it cause I'm using google voice app - it's possible.
Maybe she's upset at me for 1, waiting long, 2 BY MISTAKE, not returning her call.
The reason why I'm so adiment about getting in touch with her because she has my necklace (I know it was a mistake and it wasn't expensive. 2$ from goodwill. But hey, it has sentimental value." Maybe I should text her saying my phone hasn't been getting calls or texts so don't think I've been dodging you, hope your not upset". Idk. Tell me what I should do to get my necklace back and possibly get a Day 3. Thanks.

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I'll logically explain this to you... You got your phone number from a girl at a red light...

She probably is not attracted to you. She has no reason to be. Her reason for giving you her phone number was incase you were some psycho who had a gun in his center counsel and was going to shoot her in the middle of the intersection. Girls HATE awkward situations. Her giving you her number and then avoiding you afterwards is much easier to deal with than a trip to the ER with a bullet logged into her side. She didn't want to deal with the confrontation or the awkward situation of saying "no."

Practice solid game dude. Don't try and short cut shit and expect to work game through a text message. Phone numbers don't mean shit unless she is attracted to you. Move on....

Dude, she stole your necklace. Best to just give up and quit.

I wish I could agree with you but that segment of your point was wrong. If she wasn't attracted/interested she wouldn't have met me on a day 2? You don't meet ppl you think are potentially dangerous at stores on a date. She also responded to my kino, positively. She Was attracted to me. I messed it up.

Look, I'll try something one more time and I'll drop it. Trying to learn as much as possible. I'd just like a good idea.

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LOL opps... didn't read that part. You fucked up somewhere on the date man. She lost interest or got creeped out..

Send her this... It's posted somewhere else on the forum. I've kinda reworded it and used it several times. It works.

"I wanna ask you something that has kept me sleepless for nights and I want you to be totally honest with me. It might make things awkward between us after I ask you this but I have to know how you feel. I have had this question on my mind for a while now and I think it's time for me to just be straight up and confront you on it. I truly hope this doesn't ruin the relationship that we already have. I just need to know and I don't see any other way I could get over this. It wouldn't be fair on my part if I didn't get an answer. I want you to tell me truthfully, no matter how harsh your answer is. I just want your honest opinion.... Do you like coke or lemonade?"

She will laugh her ass off and its a guaranteed response. It will put her emotions on a roller coaster as she is scrolling down reading and then BAM... You throw a joke in there. Let me know what happens

Dude, that's too long of a text - i'll look stupid?
And it's a gamble, not out to take risks. I appreciate the help but there's no strategy in that. It's a major Dlv.
I think I'll just call her and tell her/leave a voice message, "Hey, Give me a call back/I've been busy with work and been meaning to get in touch with you. If you called me or txt'ed me, I probably didn't get it because my phone has been having trouble getting txts and calls - so don't think I'm dodging you. So please don't be upset and if you are, I'd at least like my necklace back. Its only fair. Thanks."

That's my idea.

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Don't text her anymore, even if you are sure she has interest in you. There could be a million reasons she hasn't replied yet, all which are out of your control. All you can control is your own frame. If you continue to text her without her responding it will show desperation and neediness, not the act of the desirable man.

Stop trying to convince yourself it's for the necklace, because even if it is half true, it doesn't mean it will come off as so to her. You must keep the "abundance mentality".

If you had 5 other hot girls on the hook at the moment, how much effort would you truly be putting into solving this situation?

If the necklace truly means that much to you, wait a few days or weeks if she hasn't replied to you by then just send her a message relating to the necklace in hopes of getting it back.

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It works man. Try it.

It's super AFC as she is reading it... She will literally ask herself... "WTF IS THIS GUY GOING TO ASK ME?!" then BAM... You ask something absolutely ridiculous. It's all strategy and it's actually not a DLV. If you were to ask her something serious, yes. It would be a DLV. But you are not. You are asking which sugary beverage she prefers.

The voicemail you are considering leaving her is actually a DLV. It sounds like you are whining about a 2 dollar necklace. And the whole "my phone isn't getting calls" thing is stupid with todays technology. It is highly unlikely that a phone doesn't get texts or calls but yet it can launch a space ship from across the country. She knows it. You know it too. You've got to rebuild attraction and using that text will ATLEAST get you a positive response.

I was reading this and I thought... Wtf... He's seriously suggesting that? But then I got to the punchline and I see the value in it. I don't think it's DLV or too long. It's a good text for someone who's been getting ignored by a broad.

Like Majikal said, you fucked up somewhere on your Day 2. Forget about her and move on. If not, try that text.

I'm not saying I know it all, I love learning from you guys - and inproving my game. I mean my message is straight out, it may not be woman's language but its reasonable. And I could always change the weak parts. And it's true, sometimes my phone doesn't inform me of txt messages or calls - not making it up. That's life.
To be honest, it's kinda cool that she took it, cause I could always turn it into a DHV story saying "a beautiful girl 'borrowed it from me, and never returned it. I'm sure ill cross paths with it again but you'll hv to earn my trust. It's the pretty ones you got to watch out for." That sounds like a good future line, about it.

As for the situation at hand: I'm looking for a good strategy: most of the good pua's I know would think that line is really unncessecary. And what do you expect her to respond with that "Lemonade HAHAHAHA let's get married now" lol. Maybe once a girls mind is made up that's it. Either way I look at it, I can learn here.. I already have. So, I'd like another further suggestion.

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Too much too soon, you need to relax.

She is not commited or obligated to reply; give it a bit of a break youve had her cornered.

Youre 'too' interested off the bet, you need to let her prove her worth to you.

Text her in a day or two, but avoid putting her on the spot.

Random text "(describe her car) follow with a question mark"

If she bites, become a clueless stud and go slow - "oh nice, whats up?"

if she bites again, reply with "oh cool" normally if she is interested she will follow up with a question. Dont assume youve done something wrong, just relax. Girls love to assume youre being dramatic or insecure or pushy.

It's creepy as fuck you gave her a random $2 necklace, and it's needy as fuck you're texting her over and over.

She's not interested.

You've actually convinced yourself you NEED this $2 thing back? If it was that sentimental you wouldn't have dumped it on her in the first place.

Buy another necklace. She's a write-off. Majikal nailed this with his analysis. That text is a good one and might actually get you a reply.