It's very frustrating when a girl gives you her phone number and doesn't respond, isn't it? Here are some ways you can avoid girls "flaking" after they give you their phone number....

-Before you get her phone number, make sure you have attraction between the two of you established as well as, some common ground and rapport built. This will give you the opportunity to find something interesting to mention that the two of you can do together in the near future. (A reason besides having sex for her to see you again.)

-Having a "date" already planned before getting her phone number will avoid the awkward situation of her actually having to give it to you. At this point, she should simply want to give it to you so she can see further discuss with you plans for your "date" the two of you have.

-Don't walk away right after you got her phone number as if it were some sort of fucking prize. This will make her feel like you were just trying to "pick her up" and instantly turn her off. Stay with her for a few more minutes and talk to keep the interaction normal.

Other Tips for Avoiding flakes....

-Realize that some girls will give out their phone numbers for the purpose of self validation or to avoid the awkward situation of saying "no." Some girls like a bunch of guys texting/calling her all day because they like the attention. Also, her giving you her phone number and ignoring any attempts you make to contact her again is much easier than her saying "no" and listening to you whine and bitch about why she should give it to you.

-Call. Don't text to ask her out. The power of emotions behind hearing someones voice is much greater than reading their words through a text. The meaning of what you are saying can be much better expressed through your tonality than through 160 characters. You want to be different. Realize, that if your target really is an attractive woman, she is going to have tons of guys texting her. You want to be different and stand out. Grow some balls, pick up the phone, and call her.

-Avoid your typical "date." In a woman's eyes... what happens on a date? The guy wines and dines her and she is expected to spread her legs at the end. Putting her in this situation will turn on her logical mind and make her realize that she is in a situation that she will end up sleeping with you. Emotionally, this is okay with her. But logically, she would not sleep with a guy she just met. Find something fun that is close to your home that the two of you can do together and invite her along with instead. (i.e. seeing a local band, sight seeing, visiting a bookstore or coffee shop)