Alright so I have two current situation and this is my first post here, looking for some good tips.

First situation:
This girl I met years ago started talking to me so we went on two dates so far. Saturday we had drinks and danced and hooked up on the dance floor and she was totally into it. Last night we went to dinner then my place for a movie where I thought things would get more interesting. She talks openly about her sexuality and compliments me on my looks and such. However, at my place it was difficult to even hook up with her without her shying away. So after the first date she texted me about how fantastic the night was and cant wait to see me. Didnt get the same vibe after last night. What should next step be? I thought to wait for her to contact no matter how long it takes.

Second situation:
Met a girl at a bar who must be an 8 at least maybe 9. She comes back to my place. Can't close the deal but wants to date. Apparently, she used to be a wild child and is now a church girl and stopped dating me because I "bring out temptations in her she shouldn't be doing." So she called it off. However, we still keep in somewhat touch rarely, and I know I will run into her at the bar again even though she doesnt want to "date". Where should I go here?

Thanks!