I've been chilling with this shy girl and made out with her twice but can't keep convo going or start them. Texting her is rough too but I can get her to hang out. I'm trying to figure out how do you break an extremely shy chicks defenses cause I have no routine or technique for this. I'm trying to find ways to kino her too which might make it easier.

Start telling her to do things and if she doesn't, show disinterest. If she is attracted to you she will start doing them to win your attention. I've turned some shy girls into freaks

If you're looking for a wing.

shy girls just haven't been able to connect and feel comfortable. Ask her questions, don't interrogate her, but asks her about different stuff, let her talk, and listen for ways to connect with her on with what she says, no matter how little she says.

ask her about her first kiss, her first love, her first day at school, her favorite place in the world, etc. Things that are emotionally investing. dont ask her how they went, but how they felt or would feel. get her in a talkative mood. if you havent done the cube to her, do it.

Try doing these that don't require talking. Just be totally comfortable with her silence. Be physically fun. Try to entertain her, by doing things that require some concentration and she can watch. If you can be comfortable with the silence the sexual tension will go absolutely through the rough. It's really quite ideal.

Also tease her a lot. Shy girls are really nervous so you can just tease the hell out of them. Mimic her shyness. Pretend that you are about to say something, then stop, look down, scuffle your feet, fidget, then start to talk again and stop. Then smile at her. Act like you are in grade school and stick out your tongue at her or make faces. Just make it clear that you understand she is nervous and you are fine with it.

As an example, I opened a two set at a club. I walked up all confident and said a big hi. Then I just stood there looking sheepish for about 5 seconds. I kept looking at them like I was going to say something. They asked me if hi was all I had thought of, which I said yes. I kept doing that for about 5 minutes and they gave me hints of what I could say next. They basically made the whole conversation themselves. It was hilarious.

This is exactly what you should be trying to do.

Then test the Kino. depending on how receptive she is man she just might not be that easy girl you can manipulate into moving much faster.

yeah, try to touch her a lot. i usually start by just putting the back of my hand on her shoulder sometime during the conversation, then i start leaving my hand there for longer and longer. she'll get used to it, and you can move on past her shoulder. that's always gone well for me, so long as you make sure to challenge her every now and again. playfully pushing her away,suddenly stopping and turning away from her until she works for your attention, that sort of stuff.