Been talking to this girl for a while. I put away my busy schedule to finally talk to her. Then last night when her guy friend found out I was talking to her, he told her that she had to get off the phone. (It doesnt sound like hes jealous, more they had something planned from earlier.)



A) Do you press on forward as if nothing happened?

B) Maybe some strawman? "Hey just really cares about you and doesnt wanna see you get hurt"

C) Let her know in a way "Wow... okay" or some kind of neg to let her know that she's gotta make it up to you?





On one hand, I felt dissed, but then again it's her friend so you dont want an obstacle/power struggle.

It does sound like he's into her, but maybe a proper afc. Make sure you're game is on point and you're super confident. Don't read too much into it. Just make a joke about the guy to her and make fun of the situation.

A! B is too heavy for the situation, C would rather annoy her than make her want to speak to you again. She's entitled to hang up the phone, even for stupid reasons. Also don't argue over small stuff, keep it fun to talk to you. Next time you speak to her, just carry on the conversation at the point where you left off. That will keep talking to you the fun thing to do.

I think the roommate / friend did date before. But that was years ago and Im sure that, while he may be jealous or even over her, he's probably used to her dating other guys by now.


I'm guessing maybe B (strawman) is good if it comes up again. Chances are Ill bump into him and her female friends. If you say something like "Well he's just being a good friend and looking out for you," maybe if they overhear it, they'll understand you're not a jackass and you understand where they're coming from.


My game is alright, so I think proceed like normal is fine. From what I know, she's seeing other guys too so .... the friend isn't really my main problem.

definitely option A, If it starts happening more and more, id make a joke about it and continue as normal. as long as you dont make it a big deal

You said "found out" was she hiding it from this guy?

You could play it from 2 different angles:

1 - The secrecy of talking to each other, good flirty roleplay
2 - Busting her balls about the guy and how he knows all the things, good and bad , you guys would get up to if you ever met

Just my opinions

good luck

I was just about to ask. What happens if it happens more often and becomes an obstacle, like he wants to prevent her from talking to me?

Should I cut down the amount of talking and communication?


voowen: I didnt even think of that, those are great ideas.

- The secrecy = "Omg the world doesn't want us to be together. It's too bad we do whatever we want. We're like secret spies." That sorta thing

- Busting her balls = So you let your friends decide everything for you? Yikes do they know everything about us? Where's the privacy? Omg who is this, am I talking to him right now?


Cant wait to give these whirl. (Actually thatd be bad bc thatd mean he really was an obstacle/ cockblock) I really do like this girl so I hope things turn out well.