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PostPosted: Wed May 08, 2013 3:34 pm 
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Ok so this new girl just got hired a little over a month ago and it's clear she's into me and we have a lot in common.

We haven't gotten deep into relationship talk yet so I haven't mentioned I have a GF yet, but as the days go on it seems like that's coming.

I mean me and my GF are in a good place and I care about her tons but we have had almost broken up a few times, so I guess what I'm asking is how should I play this...

I would love to cheat with this chick (the tits on this dime my god) but who knows if she's down low and then there's the whole work thing which suxass...So how should I play this? I guess the first order of business is should I just casually drop the bomb that I have a GF?

Bottom line is probably not leaving my girl but I'd like to keep it in a place where I got this work chick on third base ready to come home if I ever do have another GF problem


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PostPosted: Wed May 08, 2013 6:43 pm 
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The fact that you're even posting about this tells me that you aren't very satisfied with your current relationship. Either break up with your girlfriend or tell this other girl that you are in a relationship. Do not cheat.


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PostPosted: Wed May 08, 2013 11:08 pm 
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The fact that you're even posting about this tells me that you aren't very satisfied with your current relationship. Either break up with your girlfriend or tell this other girl that you are in a relationship. Do not cheat.
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PostPosted: Thu May 09, 2013 3:40 am 
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I won't moralize too much. If your girlfriend is good to you and devoted, then obviously, don't cheat. but on a purely practical level, if you cheat with the girl at work, it will probably get out and your GF will find out eventually, especially if you two become serious and she gets to know your coworkers better. Once that happens, if it doesn't end your relationship, it will stain it forever. You should ask yourself about how serious your intentions with your GF are before deciding what's best.


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PostPosted: Thu May 09, 2013 7:26 am 
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The fact that you're even posting about this tells me that you aren't very satisfied with your current relationship. Either break up with your girlfriend or tell this other girl that you are in a relationship. Do not cheat.
I second this as well. Except that if he's posting about it, I think it rather means he really wants to stick his D in her V, rather than he's unsatisfied with his girlfriend. We all have tendencies to fuck everything around us. Control your urges before you end up doing something stupid.


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The fact that you're even posting about this tells me that you aren't very satisfied with your current relationship. Either break up with your girlfriend or tell this other girl that you are in a relationship. Do not cheat.
I second this as well. Except that if he's posting about it, I think it rather means he really wants to stick his D in her V, rather than he's unsatisfied with his girlfriend. We all have tendencies to fuck everything around us. Control your urges before you end up doing something stupid.
THIS AND THIS!! Nuff said. Case Closed!


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PostPosted: Thu May 09, 2013 3:31 pm 
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I appreciate yall advice and my relationship with my GF is going good, but I'm spending more time with this work girl than her and I just want a gameplan for keeping my connection with work girl open just for the POSSIBILITY (I may never act on this)...so I guess I'm asking how not to just burn this bridge completely...typing this on the iPhone as she's asking me about what foods we want to eat if we hang (I'm being ambiguous of course)

So to my first question should I just keep saying nothing or just casually say I have a GF as we naturally talk?
What can I say, this girl is Effin hot, and while I won't throwaway my GF for her she's bad enuff that I want to keep her in a gaming zone of sorts, sorry if that's morally wrong to ask on players site


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PostPosted: Thu May 09, 2013 3:50 pm 
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sorry if that's morally wrong to ask on players site
There's a subtle difference between a pick-up artist and a player. A player is one would deliberately lies and misleads for the sole purpose of getting laid. A skilled pick-up artist doesn't need to lie to get laid.

That said, what you are suggesting is to make her your backup. Intentionally having a backup is somewhat wrong in my opinion, although I suppose that's a topic for a hot debate. If you want to keep her as a backup, I would make it clear you have a girlfriend when she becomes over-flirtatious. You can nonchalantly ask her if she has a boyfriend, and then inform her of your relationship when she asks you in return. This will make you appear in good demand and dedicated to your girlfriend. She'll respect that and though she may stop flirting with you, she'll always want to suck your dick.


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Just treat her like a bro, there's no way you can game her so perfectly that she is happy to wait around for you to not break up with your gf. She would just get bored and move on.

Hang out with her like you would your bros, be honest with her, if things ever got rocky with your gf and it ended and if she isn't already in a relationship you could tell her you always wanted her since the day you saw her mesmerizing eyes bla bla bla.

like the others said, don't cheat.


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sorry if that's morally wrong to ask on players site
There's a subtle difference between a pick-up artist and a player. A player is one would deliberately lies and misleads for the sole purpose of getting laid. A skilled pick-up artist doesn't need to lie to get laid.

That said, what you are suggesting is to make her your backup. Intentionally having a backup is somewhat wrong in my opinion, although I suppose that's a topic for a hot debate. If you want to keep her as a backup, I would make it clear you have a girlfriend when she becomes over-flirtatious. You can nonchalantly ask her if she has a boyfriend, and then inform her of your relationship when she asks you in return. This will make you appear in good demand and dedicated to your girlfriend. She'll respect that and though she may stop flirting with you, she'll always want to suck your dick.
Couldn't say it better myself


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PostPosted: Sat May 11, 2013 3:30 pm 
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Man, if you guys saw this chick you would understand but I do hear you all... Guess I'll just bro her up until the time comes where i can do something but maybe that time will never come, hopefully....argh...


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Sounds like you're expecting things to go bad with your gf, are you lying to yourself and saying things are fine.
Take some time to think about it dude.

Would you rather do this and lose both women or stay with your gf and gain all that social proof from hanging out with this hb, meeting her friends, broadening your social circle?


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