Could be. I think we spoke on the chat about 15 months ago. If I remember correctly, the main point was that when people have casual sex, their bond should be rewarding in itself instead of being just about sex.

7000: Your post is quite comforting but in many ways goes against what I have heard. Like I have heard from Brits online that there are many Indians in England but British women only date Black or White guys which doesn't hurt me since I am not that into them but it does give off some indicators. So to hear that you know of Brown guys getting laid in Europe by local women is a bit, well, out of what I would usually hear.

Also, I am not going to Holland for the women, I am going there with two good friends who have invited me to come with them. Getting laid is a part of the fun since two of them who have been there managed to score but then again, they are White so I thought it would be different.

About Italian women, ya, Southern European girls are some of my favorites if we are going by looks alone, I love them. Issue is I have met a lot of Italian girls (at conferences) who had that princess attitude to them while other European girls like Eastern European and Northern European were a bit more social. I heard it from Italian men themselves and many others about Italian women having high bitch shields.

Now to others

Dicklow: I don't see many Latinos or Black men in my area hook up with White women. Hate to sound out the stereotype but when I see Black guys in my area hook up with White girls she is usually not the kind most guys would go after but I am sure in other places this isn't true. I have never seen an ethnic Latino with a White girl down here.

As for why I love White girls so much. Getting with them is very challenging compared to other kinds of women, I find that Black women pretty much approach me and hit on me, same with Brown women but to a lesser extent. Latinas and Asian girls are an open playbook, if I play my cards right I get them but Asian girls surprisingly enough love me.

White girls NEVER approach me and I rarely score that much with them, then again I live in the south and I don't know of that many minorities who are very successful with them.

Also, I used to love Latinas a lot but for now my ideal woman would have to be a beautiful blonde. Reason being that I have never been with one.

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Since mr Latino guy quoted that post by Blackdragon, I ask you this:

Why in the world does being Asian and Indian have to be in the same category as being poor, short, or unemployed?

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You don't need tons of Dutch blondes, so you also don't need their opinion. You need maybe 5 if you're rushing. I'm sure you can find 5 blondes that find you physically attractive.

See my BIGGEST issue with the trip and one that caused me to post this thread is that by doing some research I found that European women in general:

1. Date White men out of default (since they are White themselves)
2. Date and hookup with Black men due to stereotypes

Until 7000's post, I had not heard of Indian, Asian, Middle Eastern, or even ethnic latinos having much success with women in Western Europe which is what caused me to miss out on the trip to Sweden with a friend of mines, simply because I was scared he would have a chance and I would not.

Some have come out to me and told me they don't consider a Middle Eastern guy with White girl to be interracial in Europe and all that even if he is around my color but oh well. Going to a new country and lets check it out. Gonna keep my head up and PLUS its not like I am going to France where my skin color WILL INDEED work against me.

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I am glad you ask, by the way my name is skills, mr. excuses i mean paramount... Excuses! re-read he talks about it in that post. By the way, I am a latino(half black/half white) that had a lot of white blondes(25-50), dating one now for 6 years that pay the bills... Anyways, i got you! you are fucked in the head, you are not looking for a solution, your therapy is going to forums venting your misery... You are not looking to get better(just like blackdragon post has samples)... Anybody giving you advise or trying to help you, is just making things worst, you just like the attention, troll like behavior... As i said there in nothing special of a white girl with blonde her(most of them dirty blonde that die the hair blonde), all you are doing is putting them on a pedestal with your silliness. Your game mechanics, your believes, and subcommunication with women are all fucked, you need to start from 0 and learn fundamentals. But you won't, you will keep making 20 silly posts, retiring and doing the same thing you been doing for years.... You can give a man a fish or you can teach them how to fish...

The paramount method(i forgot the name of the author):

also goes by this names nick_carraway, tempeuser, mr.buchanan, hendrick's left hand


One thing you do well you Destroy every forum you touch, good work... Puahate dream come true.

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whew, for a guy who claims to be a modern day casanova, you surely seem bitter and frustrated especially after such a petty insult

cool off ese, I just asked a simple question which you failed to answer

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I am calm, and never have or never will be a modern day casanova, i claim that i am skills360 nothing else(pretty happy being skills360 btw)... I and a lot of seducers have answer your silliness for almost 2 plus years, is time for you to take action...

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Sure, you're calm, I believe you.

No one asked you to answer and if you had truly been keeping up with me, you would know I have lays under my belt and improved since I first came here.

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Fuck off. Seriously. This rediculous thread should have been locked by the mods the second it was opened but instead there has been a ton of real value posted by guys who know what they are talking about and you have just dismissed it all with a wave of your hand. Please don't come to Europe, you will give all the normal Asian guys here a bad name. I know plenty who are complete players and do fine, I doubt you will.

I doubt he's a troll. I've trolled in my younger years, and trolling is literally saying shit just to get an extreme reaction out of people. I think paramount really has serious inner game/insecurity issues, and turns to these boards to get support, but its never enough. Ultimately there's nothing we can do to help. Besides that, at the end of the day, I would never spend thousands of dollars and lots of valuable time to travel god knows where just to try to have sex with random women. Its a flawed attitude from the getgo. Europe is amazing to experience whether there are or aren't any girls to fuck.

^ Exactly, He is not a troll, I really believe he is a nice dude with deep self image problems, but the problem is that he feeds from that support that he gets on the forums, like a vicious cycle, and just like a drug addict is never enough he needs more and more and more... The more attention(support he gets) the more he needs and posts.... At some point he will need to kill that type of behavior, cause it will be(and it already is) that identity.... As I said he needs to take a break from the forums and start from 0 with small goals, just like a newbie... Fail get up fail again, change the fundamentals and be on the field, see what works what does not etc... And please paramount DO NOT GIVE ADVISE!

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Usually I dislike what skills has to say but he was right on. I feel that this forum has given me a lot of help when needed and I have thrived off that help, which in a way contributed to me getting laid and having a hotstreak going in 2012. This is arguably the best forum for PUA advice and I have received a lot of legitimate answers here.

I will admit I have inner game issues but I also will say I have the credibility to give advice. I have managed to thrive and do good in my old town, an area where a man of my color is supposed to have it difficult. I got laid 9 times in 2012, the one other time was from a relationship so that means 10.

On that basis I feel that I have the credibility to give advice but I know that there are certain areas of myself where I do lack. We are all here to help each other and quite honestly I have seen tons of people here who haven't quite made it to the level of a PUA guru but still give decent advice I have benefited from. I have grown a lot since I first came here so on that basis I deserve to give advice.

The Europe issue is tough for me. Yes I am going there to enjoy myself, have a good time, see a new area, etc. Yet I have the fear that my friends will get laid while I don't due to ethnicity and because of what I have read about the way people of my color are viewed in certain countries. If I was going to California or NYC, my fears would be unreasonable but I am not going there. I am going to a continent where right now racism is a pretty big issue and one where historically, from what I have read, only Black and White men have success.

But my race threads have gotten out of control, my other thread I posted on the same day as this talks about why I have the inner-game issue I have. So anyone who wants to know can check that thread out. This thread has served as a beacon of knowledge so I think it should remain unlocked UNLESS a major fight breaks out in here.

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Ban this fucking troll already. Seriously.

Practical advice then. If you're worried about racism, stay in hostels and go on the big organised bar crawls. Loads of hot, open minded chicks from all over the world with their ASD turned off because they're away from their usual family and social groups.