hi guys, i ve never ever done online dating, now ive got a date on saturday with an 8 i met on there any advice? especially with escalating

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It's no different from any normal encounter with a new girl.

which dating site is this?

Same if anything she's a little bit more desperate than the normal girl haha

its pof, only joined it because its free and because of a kink steve jabba sent out

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right I just been on a date from pof with a 9 and this is what i done worked a charm although I didnt get laid I didnt push for it

meet her try relax and take it easy I actually run a few routines as ice breakers and to avoid any awkward silences as I hadnt spoke to her much on the phone previously I did the 5 questions game esp and strawberry fields after a brief encounter in the pub i suggested going back to hers and watching a film started getting the kino on following the vindicarlo ladder although she resisted from fucking me so i didnt really succeed in that area but i built a lot of attraction and have seen her since where I done the cube lol that stuff definitely works i done it with a girl the week before and got laid

A WARNING.....met the chick she was colder then ice not interested in the slightest. then another girl messaged me a few days later. and to say shes a bunny boiler would be an understatement

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I learned a new phrase today: bunny boiler.

But yes, hate to say it, but most women under the age of 30 who are on a dating website will typically have baggage. There are isolated instances where that's not true, but it's very rare from my experience.

to be honest dating websites are the lazy way to date its also a pure numbers game ive had around 20 girls respond out of at least 400

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I avoid online like the plague... It doesn't let you stand out, and if she's remotely attractive, out of the hundreds of neck beards and roided up tools that are going to be trying to game her online, you're going to be just a number, and it will very much be HER choosing YOU (if you're lucky). And not YOU choosing HER. From the beggining that sets up a bad dynamic. To me courting on the internet is like an e-peen contest. If you have any game whatsoever, use it to your advantage to set yourself apart from the rest, that can only hit on women from behind their computer screen. Show your attitude, balls (figuratively), and your confidence, and that will give you a far better chance. Not to mention, like someone said. Girls that turn to online dating usually have baggage.

I've tried POF (plenty of fish) too but have only had a few dates, and it didn't go well. Unfortunately I haven't had much luck with the more attractive girls and it's hard to stand out on a dating website. Typically I'll send a joke but it gets pretty stale after a while. Any tips when it comes to other ways of opening on these sites?

Pre-escalate! Warm your target with sexual innuendos and flirty banter, if she responds well keep it going and set it up to be acted out on the date. It can be as simple as a kiss and as crazy as a b-j in the washroom at a restaurant, that all depends on how well she responds to your pre-escalation, how sexual she is and and how far down the rabbit hole you want to go.

You need to gauge her sexuality and attraction before the date, this will allow you to see where she stands and also give you an abundance of information to guide you through your seduction.

Edit: Be sure to swap digits and contact each other through the phone if you haven't already. Escalate via text and keep this as your only means of communication ( don't message on pof anymore dont even go on the site) It will separate you from the rest of the herd and create more of a personal experience for you both. ( I guess you could call that cyber isolation )

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Do something to stand out, say some crazy shit, be unique and separate yourself from the herd. Study your targets profile and create the persona you think will garner her attention. Online game is all about the numbers and difficult if you are just an average man. If you are that average man, you need to do or say something extraordinary.

It's online game, what do you have to lose.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.