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Hello everyone. My name is...well, I guess it's not really important. But I'm new here, and I somewhat doubt that anyone actually experience will read this. I've been on internet forums before, and after a year or two hearing the same introductions and the same questions and the same stories, it can become a bill humdrum. However, for my own psychological foundation and to feel a sense of a beginning, I'm writing this anyway.
The stuff that should be said: I'm 24, live in various regions of New York State, learned about the game a month and a half ago via the book "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," and have become rather obsessed since then. I have read hundreds of pages of this droll material online, watched countless hours of Style, Braddock, Matador, Cajun, Lovedrop, Edward Norton's better half, Mystery, "The Pickup Artist," "Keys to the VIP," movie scenes, lesbian porn, and of course Memento (not cause it has anything to do with Pickup, which it might, but more because it's a really effing good movie). I've already read the Game, The Rules of the Game, The Pickup Artist, and various other books suggested by those at the forefront of the community over the past 10+ years.
The stuff that should probably not be said: It's been awhile. You know what I mean. I've had three girlfriends, slept with one, and made out with countless other females. Beyond that, my expertize lies in having a million girls, many of them hot, who love to come to me and ask big brother questions. Yay. One of my so-called "measurable objectives" (cognitive, affective, and psychomotor), is to change this (with at least some of the ladies).
The boring stuff: My name comes from the fact that I'm a huge outdoors person (whitewater kayaking, rock climbing, winter camping, skiing, other badass nature sports), and have yet to see anyone like that in the game. I'm a second year grad school student, with a graduate assistantship, and more college Facebook friends than anyone else in the major. I seem to be hovering between the cliche game preached in big cities, and the totally different game played in the college spectrum. I have much to learn, and my main intention in joining is to learn as much as possible. I can't wait.
Did you get this far? Wow, I'm impressed. Or a little surprised. Nevermind, you're a bit pathetic. But thank you. Maybe your first impression wasn't as bad as I remember
Hey Wilderness,
I like when you've shared in the introduction part of your post that you've got to the point where you read the same questions and the same stories and that it all starts to seem like a bit of a humdrum. Why I am saying this to you?
Well, despite the fact that I'm still slowly but surely transforming from a dead broke wuss or AFC (average frustrated chump) into a natural alpha man, I would really like to try to help you open your eyes and look in the right direction as far as your seduction and dating progress goes and all based on years of my own struggles, failures and also the latest breakthroughs that I have experienced.
What has mostly motivated me to now write you is that I've realized that you are totally committed to fixing the dating arena in your life. And, you've reinforced that by sharing with us that you've read so many pick up materials and that you can't wait to learn much more (as you've said at the end of your message).
Now, let me tell you something. The truth of the matter is that you actually do not have to learn much in order to be able to reap your own successes in either dating or any other area of your life. Why?
Because what is going to hugely speed up your progress is not adopting and learning more and more information on your desired subject but focusing only on what you really want to achieve and what really matters to you and your own success.
I am saying this to you because I'd like to warn you on the dangerous syndrome of information overload that I was victim of for years and many people are still falling victim to.
The reason why I can now dare to say that I could easily become an expert on the subject of information overload is the fact that I fell victim to it in both the area of picking up women and also in the area of starting a profitable online business and was trapped in that fatal bottomless hole of information overload for about seven years.
So, all my painful failures and my utter frustrations in both areas for years finally forced me to go to look for an expert help. And, I have only lately experienced my light bulb moment that has freed me of the dangerous problem of information overload forever.
And, my light bulb moment was when I've managed to connect the dots between what I've recently learned from a famous entrepreneur Rich Schefren and my latest success in effortlessly sexually attracting hot women with no special preparations, no memorized openers, no memorized pick up lines and even no approach anxiety and no friend zone at all.
To cut the long story short, what I've learned from Rich Schefren was the cure for getting rid of the deadly syndrome of information overload. And, the cure or the solution is that you always have to first focus on WHAT you want to achieve rather than HOW you are going to achieve it. Why?
Because once you first focus on WHAT you want to get or do, your answers to the question on HOW you are going to get it or do it are going to follow at such super fast speed that you may have never dreamed possible.
In other words, when you are not clear on WHAT you really want to achieve, you may easily end up believing that you need to read and buy so many HOW-TO books, HOW-TO ebooks and other HOW-TO material.
To give you a clue on what exactly I mean here, let me share an example with you.
The reason why I was lately able to effortlessly sexually attract 20 years younger hot girl was because I focused purely on improving just one important aspect of my game that I wasn't good at for years. And, that aspect was becoming more sexually confident that's becoming comfortable with freely embracing and expressing my true sexual desires towards women that really turn me on. And, BAM! My mind-blowing success happened on the very same day, I focused my atention on just that ONE part of my game.
Finally, all I can tell you at the end of this longish message is that just focusing on the least number of activities that will get you much closer to achieving what you want to achieve once you do them will be the only best FASTTRACK to reaping your most amazing successes in life and NOT focusing on learning as much HOW-TO information as possible before you know WHAT you really want.
And, that's not everything. Once you do this, you are going to be able to unleash your best or your genius ability to achieve whatever you want to achieve. And, if you do the opposite, you may easily end up dead broke and frustrated for not achieving your desired goals based on being distracted by buying endless number of HOW-TO books most of which you really DO NOT need.
Hope you've found my tips helpful.
To your amazing successes with women!
Bruno
P.S. If you have any questions, please shoot me a PM or visit my blog below.
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