Probably the stupidest thing, imo, a women can do is shit test when they are interested.

The other day I'm chilling with this chick on campus.... right off the bat mad were touching... I'm massaging her arm.. her leg, I keep moving my hand up from her thigh to her upper thigh and she keeps pushing my hand down back in it's original place. This scene happened about 20 times until me and my boy had to leave, and he was cracking up.

It's clear she wants the D. I get her number. My boy says that I'm completely in love with her and she's like I know... So I tell her that I'm sooo in love with her with a biggy cheeky smile and she just laughs and grabs my face.

Anyways so we're texting that night and I hinted something sexual. At first she wanted to know what exactly I was talking about... than I gave her a more obvious hint and she replied "Uhhhhh.... okkkkk.... so what's new?"

In my mind I'm like "Don't uh ok me bitch. Frontin' like you don't want the D. please girll." But I just ignored the uh ok and responded.

Hoe didn't text me back... but it's all good. I'm a persistent charming nigga, not an asshole.

I wait til the next morning and reply some shit like "Ohhh my dear don't ignore me. I can't take it any longer" and she laughs... blablabla we shoot the shit and I tell her to meet me again on campus to help me with my hw.

We're in a quiet computer lab and I'm getting very touchy again. She keeps moving my hand away and I keep putting it back to where it was. She finally grabs my hand and holds it down on the table so I can't touch her, so I bring my free hand and start touching her again.... Everyone at that table started laughing, including her.

So yeah we shoot the shit blablabla good kino and whatnot... I'm sure those were shit tests what I described above but that was nothing... then she shit tests me like this as she leaves

"You need to stop focusing on me and focus on your hw."

I just kinda smirked and ignored it and she left.

10 minutes later I text her "Ohhh my dear that 1 hour felt like 1 minute when I was with you <3"

And she starts cracking up again.... my phone dies.... I turn it on and she's asking where I am?? Bombards me with kissy faces... blablabla

Cool story huh... anyways

My point is why? Why throw these stupid shit tests at me, especially when I know you want the D? I bet you anything that I'ma do you after finals. In my head, it is so fucking stupid to do so... but I'm curious to know what goes through a woman's mind when this happens.

Why do women throw shit tests when they clearly want the D?

Not sure if this helps... but she does have a boyfriend. And before you start bad mouthing me I'm the shy guy when it comes to women I don't know. She threw herself at me by continuously pinching me and grabbing my face, and then I knew it was time to start making MY moves.

Women shit test to separate the men from the boys. Lots of men are needy little boys deep down even though they brag and talk a big game. So the shit tests are there to prove you are the alpha you claim to be.

But you didn't make any moves. She rejected your moves. She did not give you compliance and she thinks you are joking, because you are acting out of line with your intent. If your intent is to hook up, then do so, but if your intent is to do homework then do homework. Keep your priorities in line. She just likes the attention you give her. She isn't interested. You are friend-zoned. You are chasing her.

Women put up shit tests to screen out men who do not live up to their standards.

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Lol this isn't a night club. Were at a computer lab on campus. I'm not going balls to the wall with women in my social circle, that's retarded.

$100 says ill do the girl after finals. Bet me loth aka mr. Know it all

I get the feeling that you're a KJ just by the fact you say you shouldn't chase women. I use to be the same way and kept wondering why I had no pussy. But I was being "alpha" and being "the prize" lol which virgin came up with that shit?

Women love attention. Chase + Persistance + Charm... that's what's working for me... and I'm loving it!

Oh and there's plenty of "compliance".. It doesn't take a genius to know whether she wants the D or not... C'mon Bro go lift something

If your system is working for you, there was no need to post your topic.

You're already a pro, so you don't need any help.

Man... I swear some of you guys do not read. I want to know why a woman even shit tests in the first place when she wants the D

To seperate real men from boys? Really? I don't think women are that fucking retarded.

First you're the alpha muscle-head, the next minute you're the shy guy and you're not sure if you should make the first move?? Even if the woman wants to fuck you at that particular moment, your behaviour from that moment onwards can determine whether or not she actually goes through with it. She can gain or lose attraction for you very quickly depending on how you react to her shit tests. Never assume you've got it in the bag until she is bouncing up and down on your dick.

And yes, the shit test is to see if you are the real deal who will fuck her brains out, not an inexperienced needy little boy who doesn't know how to fuck. Girls love leading guys on, so until you fuck, anything could happen

Im like a fucking religion. Don't hand pick my posts than come to conclusions. You'll take me out of concept. Instead read all my posts over and over again to fully grasp what I'm saying.

Ima fuck her in this month and pm u when I do. #CockyNigga

Thanks for the shit test explanation though.

sort of seems like your post that you might be throwing off some bad vibes

you are ignoring what she is doing when she is being obvious and just rationalizing her actions how you want to rationalize them, you put hand on her leg, she moves it, then you put it back, there is no compliance, you could be coming off bit sexually frustrated and needy to her, you want more, you want more, you want more

there has to be a give and take between the two of you, she has to be giving back, there has to be a reciprocation, if there is no reciprocation but the girl keeps sticking around, chances are she just wants to attention but isn't interested in sleeping with you, more so likely just interested in being validated and having a male friend who likes her around to make her feel good, and if that's the case

be more straight forward and if you don't see compliance then it's pretty obvious she isn't interested, and if you can't let it go and it makes you feel butt hurt or you really just think it means nothing and everything is a shit test, then that's your cue that you are too invested in a girl who hasn't even slept with you, you're getting oneitis and have to start working on your confidence and neediness