There is some chick that I've been trying to get to hang out. We hooked up a couple times and sometimes text a little. Lately instead of just deleting her , I just continuously invite her to do group stuff with me and other people. Most days she can't cause she works and I kind of know this.

Is it DHV or DHL to keep doing this. I do keep on asking her to chill which she doesn't, but I don't whine about it just hey i'm going somewhere fun if you wanna come.

Any thoughts. We've hung out a couple times and she is open to chilling again I think. Part of it may be money cause she doesn't want me to pay and she doesn't have much

The thing is if she really wanted to hang with you she would find a way for it to happen (I had a girl so into me she missed work to come hang) or she would set something up with you. You need to move on and game other girls if she really wants to hang she'll contact you.

Ya I agree. She says this bs like if you ever want to talk I'm there to listen. She water to be my friend . I game tons of other girls but before I move on should I call her out ?

Why call her out? By saying nothing and carrying on, you'll still have things the way you left them should she flip flop and should you choose to pursue that.

I agree. It's just someone begs you to be their friend but then makes no effort. And no that I'm kind of over it I'm thinking ignoring just tolerates that behavior cause you just put up with it in hopes that the girl comes around

Not a mean call out but just something like ok well if you ever do wanna chill let me know I'm done asking you

Don't call her out makes you look weak and gives you 0 chance of ever fucking this chick again. Just don't contact her at all it sends a bigger message that you have more going on in your life and she was never that big of a priority.