I met up with a really hot friend of mine and we went out for Asian food. We hadn't seen each other for 2 1/2 years and we had an amazing time. Laughing, touching a little, some hugs, lots of eye contact, lots of sexual talk. She told me that she was having singing lessons which I think she was a bit shy to reveal.

Despite all this she told me that she was seeing someone. She only split up with her ex (of 5 years) about a month ago.

I pretty much ignored the boyfriend comment and just carried on making her laugh etc. She also invited me to a party at the weekend and told me she was considering not inviting her boyfriend. Unfortunately I can't make the party.

I would really like to get something started with this girl and would really appreciate some thoughts on the situation, i.e. what is a good direction to take this in now and how do I approach it.

Much Love and thanks in advance for the replies

Don't fret about determining if it was a date or not. That's irrelevant. Your point of focus should be on the fact that she is showing you clear signs of interest. She clearly isn't that interested in her boyfriend if she's actually considering not inviting him. It's very obvious that she doesn't give a shit about him. In a few days, ask how the party went and tell her you'll make up for your absence by taking her out to...wherever. As far as you're concerned, she is single. Remember that.

Thanks for the reply mate.

One more interesting thing:

I previously discerned her type (Pandora's box) as The Seductress.

I actually cannot believe how accurate the description is. The conversation we had naturally flowed from Sexual content to talks about Goals and ambitions. I'm really amazed by how spot on this was and I wasn't really trying to steer the conversations in that way.