like guys in real life who were insecure about their race stopping them from doing good with women


if so, do you know of any success stories where the guy did get over his insecurity? how did he do it?

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Insecure about their race?

I will not give u the bs speech about all races are equal... but love ur race, black, white or what ever...

why should be insecure about your race?

I can see how a guy can be insecure about his race. It's similar to being insecure about looks. This guy probably thinks his race is worse with women, or worse looking than guys from other races. Or maybe the guy is in an area where his race is uncommon.

Race only matters if you think it matters. If you think I'm from (country A) and the hot girls are from (country b) I have a disadvantage I can't pick them up, then you don't even try.

Tell this guy if he really thinks race matters go look up a pua of that race and watch him pick up and see that race doesn't matter (and theres loads of race puas: white, black, asians, indians, latin, etc)

pretty much my point, you need to see others like you do it for it to inspire you

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what race is he anyway?

Indian

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I would not sweat race. It can be a big boon to you if you use it. Cant help you on how though. The only race/religion /person i could see someone being insecure about are people from the middle east. But that is only because of all that has happened in past years and a great many people in this country are heavily biased against them.

just run your game and do not worry about being different. You are unique, just like everyone else!

Man I'm south asian and plenty of people have probably thought I was indian or middle-eastern before but thats no excuse not to sarge. Honestly, man he needs to just stop looking for excuses to not sarge.

'I can't talk to that girl I'm indian and she's [insert race here] " is another excuse just like 'I can't talk to her she looks busy' or 'shes to hot, I can't pick her up'
Theres nothing wrong with being indian, he just needs to get out there.

P.S: If you're friend wants to see some who are his race/ close to his race pick up artist he should try searching dharam pua on youtube. Heck, even one of the simple pickup guys is indian.

I always used to feel that if you aren't a Black or White man, you are basically invisible to White women before I had that lucky sexual encounter with the California blonde a few days ago. Like only Black men and White men get to go interracial in higher numbers. You never hear of White women dating Brown, Asian, or Latino men, yet you hear so much of how Black men are taking "all the White women" and how there are places in the world where White women will go crazy for a Black guy. You never hear of areas in the world where women will go crazy for a Brown guy or Asian guy or whatever.

The one reason I turned down my trip to go to Sweden is my fear that because I am not Black or White, it will work against me with women there but I didn't make that same mistake with my trip to Holland which I will be going to in July. See that is where my race really picks up, when the thought of going abroad, especially to Europe comes to mind. I look very Middle Eastern in appearance and I hear that a lot of European women absolutely hate that kind of a look for some reason which led to me basically saying no for a chance to go to Sweden in December.

If we somehow had a forum or something where Latino, Asian, Indian, and all sorts of men could get together and discuss how their ethnicity has impacted their success with women, it would be growing and could help us out. It is always nice to talk to someone else who has had success and is somehow like you. Yet, in my experience, Indian men who are successful with women or claim to be successful never speak out about their success and just condescend and look down on other Indians who they think are "chodes".


Where I live in the deep south, you don't usually see White women go interracial. If they do go interracial, it is usually the really urban kind who grew up around Black people and might date Black men but other than that, I have not seen a White woman with an Indian or Brown guy once, and I have seen plenty of Brown men and White women.

Anyways, moral of the story, it seems that location matters a lot. I had sex with a California Blonde, have not had that success with a Southern Blonde before.

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