Hey guys,

So I met up with HB7 from pof 1st date went ok, we went out for cake. I said I have to get up early next day to get excuse to invite her over, but she didn't agree. She offered to go to see movie afterwards, but it was too late for me. I txted her next day asked if she had fun and if she wanted to see the movie next sat, she agreed. So I txted her on Sat and she said she has to go out with her family.

Is she not attracted any more? Should I txt a hard neg to her like: " I'm not interested in meeting you any more", or try to ask her out once more nicely?

Or should I just do nothing and if just wait for her to contact me and if she doesn't then move on?

I'm not a PUA at all so feel free to disregard my advice, but it just seems like she is busy. People have lives man. she seems interested.

so if no one has any suggestions I'll just txt her and ask if we're still on

You will simple just ignore it...

If you care about it, you will lose it.

Ignore it, go meet new girls, meanwhile she will contact you and it will be your game again.

ok I will ignore her you are probably right, if she was interested she would have txted me by now
if I txt her all she will do is just probably come up with another bs excuse anyway

Sounds like a plan.

Good luck.

All of the information that would let me know how it's going is hidden away in that first date with her. That date was more than just her not going home to fuck you. It contains all the information to answe the questions you have right now.

She could legitimately be hanging out with her family for the first time in a while, and unless your date went THAT well that she was talking to her family saying "OMG there's this guy... And we're gonna see a movie... I can't cancel!" Then there's no real reason to expect her to cancel on her family outig for a random movie with a random guy.

Being all hurt and sayin "ah I wasn't into you anyway" isn't a neg, it's bitter and insecure.

It would also be completely left of field as far as she's concerned. She's just hanging out with her family it just means you didn't blow her mind enough of the first date for her to want to just drop everything for a movie. So what - you get back in there and try again.

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