Hi men,

A few weeks ago I met this wonderful brunette at a party. She's 19, I'm 20. I've number closed and just ran normal game with her, try to get a day 2 and eventually close the deal. She was quite hesitant to go on a day 2, but did invite me to parties where she was attending. When I saw her the week after, at one of the parties I went for the kiss but i got the neck. Well no big deal, this is a serious one..

I know everyone would say, leave her and move on, but this girl attracted me so much that all other girls are irrelevant for the moment. She only had 1 LTR and got hurt .. so she's quite hard to get and not really that kind of girl for random hookups. That's fine. After a bit more text game I thought the time was right to show her some intent and vulnerability and show her that I think she's awesome. At the moment she had the image that I was a player without a really sentimental and serious side.

I've expressed her my true feelings and dropped my ego. She kinda took it as a good way and it made her blush. But then she said to me you're already the 3d guy in a few weeks time that said something similar. And I don't want to hurt anyone. I said, okay that's fine and internally accepted it.

But suddenly a few hours later she sent me a text message that she appreciated my honesty and started to asking me some questions about relationships etc.. I was like Wtf?? Is this girl playing me? I've asked her out many times but never got her fully investment.

The day after she Re-engaged to text some random shit again, but acted very cool in her texts. I don't get it why does she text me random shit and meanwhile text like she would be a flake?

I can't figure her out. What does she want from me? What do I do? Keep texting her, ignore her for a bit or keep showing my sweet side.

If it wasn't for that girl I wouldn't post this, but after 3 years being single some settling would be nice.

Any advice would be appreciated.

I don't think it's necessary to ignore her but don't lap up her attention, don't be too available, but be honest and forthcoming about your feelings for her if she asks because it sounds like that's what she appreciates about you.

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careful not to let afc peep through. you are a pua now. i say show her a little emotion to show your not some robot or what ever but don't give away to much emotion. women love a challenge and you are not being challenging. try being sweet a little but then turn around and be an ass about some stuff but be nice about it or you will piss her off and she will just walk away as i'm sure she has many options. don't be too easy a catch


vein

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