Hi, I was wondering one thing..
I thought, sometimes DLV can become DHV..?
I gave up hitting on a girl I had a crush on, and decided to just start with a new one:)
I went out last night and opened a set for the first time ever in my life, and accidently DLVed myself
but soon after it gave me a good result!

For example, I DLV myself in the whole group but in an exaggerated and a funny way.
Girls started laughing, so I was like fuck it, lmma just experiment it. I started

"Oh my god, I've been eating so much! look at all those fats! and I don't even lift! Touch it, ladies!"
"You know, I'm Asian and I guess the stereotype is right...damn it I'm small. Has anyone slept with a guy with a small dignity?"
"I'm a virgin, and I'm willing to protect it."
"I have no friends, you see, there's no one around me. Please be my friend.."

It sounds really strange, but whenever I said those from time to time, girls laughed hysterically. I'm not sure if it was my first-time-luck but I got with the hottest one in the group! Before leaving the bar, she told me I was funny somehow:/

SO my question is, can DLV ever be DHV?

Thanks guys.

P.S. And I need some advise on kissing, apparently I don't have much experience and I kinda suck at it

They might be laughing but you're headed for the friend zone buddy. You can't dlv and expect girls to want to date you. Never self deprecate that much. You can be humble but try not to make jokes at your own expense.

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When you say you got with the hottest one what did you mean?

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There's two times I know that DLV can be beneficial:

1. Lowering your status to not intimidate women - this is a bit advanced and might be something to not use since you seem to be starting out.
2. Showing vulnerability to let a girl trust you - use this once you've talked to a girl for a bit to build comfort.

Oh I see, now I see the difference! thank you!
What I meant by it was I kiss closed her:)
Thank you for advises!

I disagree, but not entirely.

If your value is high, your inner game unshakeable and the girl is attracted, showing that you don´t take yourself too seriously is a huge DHV. I do that a lot actually with great results. Playing down a high social status so you don´t intimidate the people you interact with is a sign of a true alpha. But there´s the hook: If you are not perceived as an alpha that kind of thing can fuck things up for you. Make sure your inner game and your frame is unshakable and you´ll get away with anything.

If they laughed hysterically that sounds like you made yourself an object of fun, rather than desire. They should be laughing out of a desire to create rapport with you, not laughing out of their own self-amusement. If anyone should be self-amused, it's you.

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