Quite alot of the time, I notice girls looking over at me and when I look at them, they turn away and generally I dont do anything about it cause I dont know what to say.
But I was thinking about saying the following next time:

ME: Do I have something on my face?

This should get the convo going but I dont know if its any good?!?

Thats an IOI. Open them and just don´t go into the "I noticed you looking at me"... Just run a regular opener...

Ezo

I agree with Ezoghoul on this one.

The best one ive heard for this was the are you shy? Because you keep looking over here and you havent come over to say hello yet.

just make sure you really dont have something on your face first. otherwise, what if you do and dont have something prepared if she says "yes, you do.."?

i knew it was an IOI. but heres my story. i'm sitting with people, this girl sits near us (its like one of them corner couch things just a public couch kind of deal) her friends join her thats fine, whatever. i open one with 'is there a line outside' (because i was trying to get another friend to come out) she answered me, but was SOOO drunk that she could barely actually answer, so i abandoned it.

eventually she leaves, but every 5 minutes or so, honestly, for the next 2 hours, she'd walk back past, look at me, stop, sit with MY friends (hers weren't there anymore)

i guess what i'm trying to say is, should i have gamed her? or was i right to leave it because she was way drunk?

-j-

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It's an IOI. Obviously, you need to take charge. Either you summons her with your finger, to which she may or may not respond. Or, you have enough confidence to walk over to her and be different. Don't say something that every other guy would say.

For instance, I put this on another thread today . . . you get EC with her, get up, walk over to her, while maintaining that EC. Don't break it. It will autmoatically be broken several times anyway from the people that you pass behind on the way to her. Doesn't matter. You maintain the EC to show that you are confident. You get to her, stop, and say something like "do you have the guts to talk to me . . . or are you just gonna watch me?" With a smile on your face the whole time, of course.

The approach alone, if you handle yourself right, will build anticipation in her.

You could have gamed her but it depends on your morals. If she was that far gone it wasnt your game that was sealing the deal it was the copious amounts of alcohol in her. I personally would not have, she prolly wont remember any of it tomorow anyways.

thats what i felt. kindof "whats the point if she's not gonna remember" after the opportunity passed i thought about it and it was kinda dumb. i could have gamed her and not really expected her to remember.. but i wasnt really thinking at the time (it seems)

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I agree here on this one. Women, when they are that too far gone..it's not challenging, it's not interesting anymore...If I were you I would move on to another set. Sounds like to me, she was trying to get your attention, but you also have to ask yourself.." Is this one worth it"?

I think you were right to stop gaming once you realized she was that drunk. Drunk girls are not fun, screws up your game and are merely annoying...

Ezo

That is absolutely great tripp, but what would be a good transition from that... This is where I have the most trouble. I can be confident and cocky but I draw blanks on what to say after the initial open. any suggestions?

Hey man. Obviously, the next step/word is in her court at this point. What I would suggest is to first work with what she gives you. If she just gives a flat answer, like yes or no, you could say "wow, you're fun. I took the initiative to come over here, and all you can do is say one word? Hmmm, maybe I should find some better company." And smile, of course. If she wants you to hang around, most likely she will give you something back. If she say says or acts like she doesn't care, tell her "thanks for letting me know now, so I don't waste my time," and just go. You've already got social proof at that point. Use it to open another set. If she gives you something back, something else to work with, I would roll with that for a minute, then go into a game gambit or a DHV story, and proceed from there. It wouldn't set the right tone if you shoot straight from THAT opener to a game or a story about yourself.