So was seeing a girl for 8 months....was constantly pushing her away and fighting to get her back. Finally she had enough.

Cleaned up the my act....tried to get her back with no more nonsense. Says she lost feelings and started talking to some other guy....

But yet she will hit me up every few days to see how I am....and ask to hang out once a week sometimes every 2 weeks.....


When we hang out she acts like we are all good...but then she will 180 on me ....back n forth...

Has told me she is only my friend and we will never be more than friends but when we hang out she acts completely different.


How do I handle her if I want to get her back and end the nonsense games she is playing. Normally i would walk away and move on but Im in love wit this girl and over the push-pull nonsense i was doing....

and advice would be great....but no bullshit advice...

I'm going to be direct the only way you can get with this girl is by going no contact with her but I really doubt you'll listen to me. Your pretty far in the friend zone with her and she even has told you your her only friend which means that she's only using you to take a emotional crap on. Bottom line go no contact(2-3 weeks, but do not be the first one to make contact) and make her contact you after a while. Meet her one on one and if she tries to tell you some emotional shit quickly change the topic or be direct and let her know you do not want to talk about it. Escalate and go in for the kiss close if she rejects and brings up the friend crap be direct and tell her you do not and will not be able to see her in this way any longer. While your doing this GAME OTHER GIRLS, many other girls. I doubt you'll do any of this because your in "love" with her but good luck.

Freeze out. At least a week solid. If she shows back up, refuse to hang out until she really seems desperate, which is how you're sounding.

The best advice is to learn from this and move on.

Different how? You have sex? If not, rest assured that she is serious about only being friends. My advice would be to move on. GFTOW, plenty of fish in the sea.

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