Hey guys, I have searched the forums for an answer to this questions and couldn't find one. (If I missed it. I apologize, and could you link me?)

So basically I believe there is a social stigma that goes along with a good looking guy. The public in general (not PUAs) assume that a good looking guy will have game, and have no trouble picking up girls.

If you know a bit about human interactions however, we know this is a sweeping generalisation and that good looking guys can be as bad as anyone and are often AFCs.

My question is, what methods, techniques, plays etc, are best for "good looking guys".

Are there certain things that will work better if your good looking, and are there things that just plain will not work? Are there any techniques specifically created for these guys to use?

Thanks in advance.
J.

Im wondering too. Some of the best mpuas are pretty good looking guys and yet people play that down because they have such good skill.

Ive been called very attractive a few times. And many puas here (who probably hate on good looking guys like they're the enemy) don't realize in women's eyes they are probably near the top of the looks scale.

I think when you're a good looking guy with a low skill level, it can fack up your state quickly. Here's this guy that looks like a champ, now he has to act like one. There's also higher standards held for good looking guys. "omg he's like sooo goodlooking but you're telling me he (insert flaw here) oh well thought he was perfect." Where as, an average dude who spews cocky funny can REALLY impress her with the effect he gives. Because the spark was so unexpected and she doesnt attribute it to just his looks.

I would say that good looking guys probably skip most of the attraction phase though. And being good looking is one (just ONE) DHV.


Can anyone shed some more light on "good looking game" ? I dont think its that easy because the pressure is on.

The only difference it has made for me is being more handsome buys you more time in interactions and girls are more forgiving if you make an AFC mistake. In my early days, I got rejected by an HB5 because I was too needy. I remember thinking at the time, i was far better looking than her. Just because you are hotter than the average guy, doesn't mean you will dominate. You can still kill any attraction with AFC neediness or beta attitudes.

There is no special "handsome style" game tactics, game is game. Techniques and approaches will simply be more successful than average looking or ugly guys. Remember though, girls care less about our looks than we care about theirs. Given the choice between a rough-looking shaven head tough guy who doesn't take shit from people and a pretty-boy super handsome guy who is desperate, needy and has no balls, most women would choose the rough guy.

I agree completely. A very attractive guy can get away with making themselves look like an ass a few times, and many girls will still be open to your pursuit. Ugly guys have to be a little more careful.

I sort of think that maybe a reason as to why good looking guys pick up girls easier is for one reason, obviously their looks, but because they wouldn't have really been insulted about their looks like a lot of guys have been at some points in their lives, so they're probably more confident for that reason...
As for tips and tricks, I'm clueless, but this is just a little theory that propped into my head when I read through this, haha

interesting, so like would any of these guys fall under the category of good looking guys in your opinion?

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Thanks for the replies, some good points have been made I think.

Regarding the pictures, I was denied access when clicking the links.

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okay lets try it again

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That's it, I think the internet has turned me into a raging homo; rating men for the satisfaction of other men. I'm a big believer that looks has a much less impact than what you actually do in field/life and this gets blasted in my face each and every time I go out. I doubt anyone in the above would get any noticeable advantage or disadvantage when out based on their looks alone IMO.

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you called some legitimately handsome guys 4s

thank god you aren't a woman

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This community is dead. Posting random guys pics for ratings is the most homo mental masturbation thing I've seen.

Great topic. Recently I've been going out 5 to 6 nights a week, and I regularly have girls say to me "OMG, you look just like Ryan Gosling!!" Does that mean I am good looking? Probably does.. so maybe I can offer some insight?

This is an interesting topic, as a couple years back I used to do a lot of male modeling, and recently I have done a shitload of pickup.

As pointed out previously, guys who aren't so damn "good looking" will assume you have tons of "game" if you're constantly going out and getting decent results. Or even have the balls to open really hot women. Just don't let anyone hold you back, and don't feel satisfied by your buddies' validation alone. Being handsome feels like cheating sometimes by just looking like the stereotypical "hot" guy when going out to a club, but without some decent PUA skills, it is completely worthless. I will explain;

Generally at a club, bar, coffeeshop, etc I will get lots of eye contact from women. I'll get subtle IOIs. But I NEVER get approached. Not exactly sure why, maybe it's intimidating to approach me..?

Anywho, here is the BIG ADVANTAGE to all you good looking guys.. you can open however you want, and the girls will more than likely respond VERY POSITIVELY to the approach. You need to keep the interaction going in a fun way, engage all the girls, and within the first minute I always get a "you look like Ryan Gosling" from one of them (which happened tonight) or "I absolutely love your shirt" or some other compliment/IOI. If you are an attractive guy you will get some girls giving you IOIs as long as you give some attention to everyone in the group of girls you are gaming, and keep things light and flirty. As long as you can hold a bullshit conversation, and touch the girl you want on the shoulder or back right when you say something, then release (I am sure there are other posts on this forum about kino escalation in conversation, but learn it and get a feel for it) she will enjoy your touch, and you can keep escalating.

Sounds easy, right? Well kinda.. Lets back up a second..

I have never had any of that stuff happen if I didn't approach a girl/group. As good looking as you are, it is your job as the man to approach the women! As a good looking guy you still must open the girl/group of girls. The upside is that they will probably give you a decently warm response, and if you can keep the conversation going/sexually escalate you are golden!

A side note, don't rely on looks. I have done that, and it does not work. Being good looking gets you the "audition" almost every time, but the heavy bald guy with way better game than you will end up taking her home. Right in front of you. Get solid game, and be attractive.

Breakdown: being good looking gives you a huge advantage when opening. You will get non-verbal IOI's waaay easier. But the fat guy with better game can still beat you! So keep practicing, and don't rely on your looks!

Yes yes yes, I was in the same situation, girls always told me things like "your hot" "your cute" etc.. and I was a pussy and kept things as safe as i can. Never made the move and let the girls do it. Good looking guys d0 have a harder time approaching because they have bigger EGO's and their self image is very strong. If you're an average looking guy and you approach a girl you don't care if she rejects you. But if you're a good looking guy and a girl rejects you, you start thinking is it because I am not good looking enough and your EGO(self image) gets devastated. Fixing this requires some practice. But once you fix it girls will be getting wet just by talking to you. If your interested in knowing me just let me know.

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I also can say from myself that this happens always when i go out and unfortunately I guess that the majority of the women I sleep with are attracted to me because Iam good looking.
This is excatly the reson why I registered myself with the forum! I want to change that.
I figured out, its all about attitude. Its basicly like in sales talk to as many people as possible then you will suucced.

Good luck with your mission!