Hey,

So I'm 5'8 and while not very short shorter than the average male. Sometimes I notice online girls are into me but when they are my height or taller at first they may be a little disappointed . I'm not hung up on height for her but how do I address this? Even if she doesn't say anything should I ?

I get the same thing in real life too

Have a "larger than life" personality. Tom Cruise, Robert Downey Jr., Bruce Lee, etc. All small guys with huge personalities.

Also dress correctly. Wear tight-fitting clothes and vertical stripes to create the illusion of height. Stand up tall with a very straight back and tilt your head back slightly when you walk / stand. Wear ankle boots or Converse style ankle sneakers so that you can use those elevating inserts in your shoes. DO NOT wear those ridiculous New Rock boots Neil Strauss talks about in the Game, they look like disability shoes for emo goths.

I have a rock n roll look, so I wear white cowboy boots with elevating inserts. I'm 5'7" without them, more like 5'11" with them.

As for online, don't mention height unless they ask. Use photos of you with your arm around really short girls to make you look taller.

Well don't you wanna be honest online?

I am saying if you have the option to not include your height on your profile, then don't include it. If you are asked the question straight up, be honest. Many girls won't ask.

height is totally irrelevant with women....absolutely have no influence whatsoever...despite the fact that you may hear opinions or sometimes get impression that it does...perhaps its you that is making it into issue...in that case it does matter....dont be fooled into illusion that it matters to women ...if youre okay with your height(and why shouldnt you be ok? because the God or Universe gave it to you) they will be too...find more ways to accept and love yourself the women and the rest of the uiniverse will have no choice but to follow ...yogurt knows yogurt...

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Im 5'9 and it doesnt bother me in the slightest. Used to be 5'8 but I weirdly grew an inch in the 4 years between starting and finishing uni. And you say smaller than average, but I'd challenge that tbh, I'd say I was more or less average height to be honest (I live in the UK). I'm taller than 98% of girls, so it's not once been an issue for me. If you're self consious about it, I guess I'd advise going to the gym and bulking up a little, or taking boxing or some kind of martial art. If you can't be big just be hard.

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Be a realist; Demand the Impossible.

I'm not saying it bothers me because I accept who I am. I also realize that some people want chinese food when what you are offering is italian. That being said at least online in that sense many times everything is going great as far as banter, and work , and body and looks everything is going fine but when I'm asked my height and I answer honestly things go downhill. It's probably why online isn't the best method because everything is in a resume format and people want the best one

it is not physical height that prevents you from getting more from meeting women online...it's mental height or perhaps imagination...you dont know how to create enough attraction yet...you can begin to do it now... cause attraction is mostly mental thing....and what you do with your powerfull mind - develop it and unleash its power is entirely upon you...here's a hint, if you act as if you are 6' 8" you wont be asked your height ever...even when asked, if you are smart or train yourself, you will know how to convert your height into advantage...i am talking from experience here and i posses many characteristics that could be considered unatractive yet i use them all the time as my main attraction hooks or leverages...and I am enjoying it...

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I came into this post expecting you to be like 5'5" or something. 5'8" is the same height I am, and I'm taller than the majority of girls I meet, so i think you'll be just fine in terms of height

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why a man must be taller from his women? i mean when he will fuck them they wont be standing anyway...

i actually suggest he goes for the taller girls...this would be perfect strategy to get rid of this superstition once for all...take a month and approach only women who are taller then you...this is perfect learning experience where you will get it on a celular level... no words and advice could substitute for the real experience...you may even say to them what are you doing and why...go for taller girls they are more attractive and it will be fun...you may say something along the lines of

" hello there i guess most of the guys wouldnt dream of flirting with girls taller than them however i am greater than that..."

or you can say:

"although it may seem to you you are taller than me in fact i am taller than you...thats because we live ina psychological reality ...soon you gonna realize what the real hight is..."

or you could use 2 first lines from this post...

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You're likely projecting your insecurity about your height more than anything, and this is coming across as awkward or aloof behavior to the women - so in fact you're looking for evidence they're turned off by your height, but in reality it is your discomfort they're reading and reacting to more than anything else.