I've been running a ton of text game lately, and I usually have about 5-10 convos going at once from tinder, POF, or club, whatever. I've been following alot of the texting guides on here and they have actually been working out great. Chicks are always responding to my texts, and i've even managed to transition a few convos into a great sexual space that led to instabang when we met up.

Problem is lately I'm even having trouble getting from text to a date/meet up. Everything is fine 90% of the time until I ask to meet up. I'm not being a loser about it when I ask either. Usually tell them 'lets meet up at ___ tomorrow' and they agree. But the last 3 times in a row I've gotten ditched with no message to explain at all. I've managed to reignite a text convo with one of them but its not feeling good. I've also been trying to get more sexual too and its backfired a few times.

Anyway I think I am maybe not building enough attraction initially? Any tips on the mid game portion of texting? I'm a little unclear about all the phases to be quite honest...

To be clear, ones you have already banged won't meet up, or any of them?

No this is new chicks. I'm just saying i think I got lucky somehow before, not really that I killed it with my game

That's what it sounds like to me. Tinder and POF and those sorts of things you're kind of playing with fire because there are so many men available to them at once and they are entirely in their element. I've gone through hot and cold streaks but personally just like anything else I've found it's better if you can get them interested right off the bat and ask them what they're doing in the immediate future I.E. that night next afternoon. I also try to stay off the app as much as possible. If you get her number you're not in the same realm anymore as the other POF boys. Just have to keep escalating it. That's my personal opinion

I've been on pof a while and I concur, the... lets call it the "INC" Internet Number Close. The INC gets you in to an entirely different SPAM with the girl. You may only get 1 in 50 or 100 girls numbers from pof but who cares. That's 7 more digits you had before talking to 100 girls online.

When it comes to asking to chill with girls that you have only texted or talked to online, make sure to call them. Don't ask in text.

Just to be clear, all of these case are AFTER number close. No problem getting the INC as you put it.

Should I just keep bantering away with them for longer? Some of these convos are going into the 2 or 3 week range...

And you haven't met many of them? Don't waste your efforts on them then. That's a long time to just be talking to a girl that WANTS to date/fuck/hang out with guys since she is using a dating site.

That's a long time to wait for sex let alone wait to meet, unless they are 11/10s (Dimes that swallow )

could you please link all these text guides you are referring to

this is the one that got me started

http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-girl/ ... bible.html