I'm a intermediate lvl pua. I've been doing pick up for 3 years now.
I'm 23 years old.

BUT

I've been inactive for a WHOLE year now.

I give up.

I can't do it anymore.

I try so hard, and I still can't do a single approach.

I've mindfuck myself everday. Slap myself. Tell myself to embrace rejection and even disappointment.
To love the harshness of life.

I dont even care about ego shit.

I know I have nothing to lose, I play to win,

BUT

I STILL dont know whats holding me back.

Everytime, like even today, I see a hot girl, I know shes totally into me (I assume it => and hence I 'know' shes into me), and i'm totally into her, I still freeze there.

However, I'm not afraid of looking at her or just staring at her. I just can't seem to doing anything about it.

I even know what I should say (just a 'hi', 'who the fuck are you?)

I even believe in the effects of whatever word I say to the girl.

I've adopted Julien's "Fuck yea!" attitude.




These are the things thats troubling me:


-Why was I able to at least try to pick up girls when I first started pick up?
-Whats stopping me now to at least open a girl compared to when I first started pick up?
-Is it because I've never got to kiss a girl or a lay throughout my years of pickup?
-How can I overcome this?
-Is this what commonly happen to intermediate level puas?



Any suggestions is appreciated!!!



Johnny

I think you think you have to pick up every woman you meet. You already know what to do. Stop thinking so much and do it. Talk to women for fun to stay sharp. It has to become a part of you. If you're still thinking about what to say and do then you need to keep talking to women. You need to keep practicing. You don't have to sleep with every woman you meet, just treat each encounter as practice, bringing you one step closer to being more natural.

Let's say you're on a line waiting for your food at a fast food restaurant. You can use that time to talk to a girl. Don't expect fireworks, just talk. Before she leaves you can ask her for her number or ask her if she wants to join you at your table. Don't expect fireworks. If she says yes... cool. If she says she can't... have a nice day. If you keep it that simple, you'll see you're not thinking too much but trying to create a situation where you and this girl can get to know each other a little bit. If she's cool, you can take her out. If she's not cool, good riddance.

Keep it very simple. Don't complicate an encounter with what you should say, who's technique to use, etc. Just focus on becoming more natural. The techniques you've learned are in your arsenal so they'll come out when you need them.

Think less and approach more!

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Think less and keep it simple!

I love it!

Thanks for much for replying!!!

Are you saying that in three years of pickup you have never kissed a girl?

If so, your problem is that you're still in the AFC stage. Reading about pickup and doing pickup are two different things.

Go back to square one.

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