So my first semester at my new university is almost over. I am taking summer classes here and I hear that it is going to be lonely. I have one more year left of college (possibly an extra semester as well).

After getting laid 9 times in 2012 I felt that I was on a hotstreak but man did that change in a heartbeat. I transferred to a division 1a school from my old university which was like a commuter campus and I had to live on my own for the first time. So far I have not even managed to get a date or makeout. Anyways here is the rundown of how it is for me:

1. Lots of work to do for school (getting to the upper level courses)
2. Balancing between that and taking care of myself/my home
3. Crazy parties are thrown by the frats but I am not involved in one and it is too late for me to rush one
4. I am a transfer and it seems like everyone has already made their cliques
5. LOTS of hot girls here but I find it difficult to approach them for some odd reason, like I don't have my own social circle

It is like I have gone 180 from what I used to be. How do I reverse my dry spell?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Gut up and approach.

Fail and learn.

Don't give up.

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too many of you on here have said that cold approaches in college are a bad idea

not gonna do that yet

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Why? Dude it's normal to talk to strangers. Too many dudes on here have vaginas. Every social interaction you have will end negatively. Either you get blown out, or one of you dies many years later. That shouldn't stop you from getting good things out of your interactions. There is a "meta" from college game, but it is also limiting. There are no boundaries in pickup. Pickup is more like...how do I focus normal social interactions into a path in which the destination is to get laid, or just build long lasting personal relationships?

Approach women you're NOT attracted to without an end game in mind. Build up your social circle through gearing your interactions for social events and filling up your time with social activity, and when deeper connection hits, escalate. Don't let fake social boundaries limit you. The people who have personal success live by boundaries they decide. They don't let others decide that for them. You should do the same.

Socially recondition yourself to see that...women are just people. Sex is a normal part of life, and how it happens in the first place. Women enjoy sex. Being attracted to a woman is nothing to hide or apologize for. Having sex with a woman is something YOU can decide based on your standards. Women only have power over you when you give it to them.

So when you talk to a girl you don't know, you should be able to compliment her and be free of outcome. You can just say hi and chat her up and tell her a few things you like about her and be on your way. If she's in your class you can chat her up over time and build a social circle, or you can date and hook up with a bunch of women and not get as personal.

I feel like you are also looking for friends though. A great way to make friends and get laid in the process is to make friends with girls. You can put them in the friend zone and they will be your cock guide.

You can also build up your sex game and just have sex with whoever you want, keeping it completely casual, and building up from women who are not as attractive but easier to women who are more attractive and what you because of the attraction you gain from abundance mentality. On school campuses you get a reputation for being a champ in the sack because you are having more sex with more women and thus you get mroe experiences from many different views. And if you're having sex all the time you will out last and out perform any gollege male. The reputation will be that you are the sex god and all the horny women will wish they were getting fucked by you because most of them haven't had more than maybe 1 good sexual partner.

You can still approach. But keep in midn friendships and use your friendzone power. You're a guy. You can friendzone a girl and then take her out if you were the one who initiated it. It's college. Friends get drunk and because they're friends, pass out in the same bed. When this happens it's pretty much always a hookup. Honestly, my friends call me the snug-rapist because I have hooked up with platonic friends so many times after an innocent bed-sharing through escalation. It's strong. And since there is such a strong friendship foundation you can maintain fuck-buddy-ship, or act like it never happened.

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Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
Spread Love
-Ders


www.facebook.com/spreadloveders

i would also question your logic on the its too late to rush one -- you can rush all you want.... go check it out and try pledging. Granted pledging sucks and youll take pointless orders from someone younger than you -- but tell them and yourself better late than never. I would suggest atleast start pledging/ rushing. itll give you an experience either way and only then will you know for sure that it wasnt for you

By having balls to approach complete strangers, you're already more attractive and have a better chance than almost all guys on your campus.

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Those guys that told you that are chodes.

Who gives a fuck bro. I'm on campus too and it's boring AF when I'm quiet and think like "Can't look like a creeper can't approach here I'll go somewhere else"

The funnest days are when I'm talking to everyone and not giving a fuck and flexing in the rear view mirror whilst sitting in the passenger seat and watching the girls smile

Be like nike and JUST DO IT!