Iv been caught out a few times during on-line chat or text game and even in face to face, Iv tried to be alpha or cocky and somehow the girl gets the drop on me buy using something Iv said in the past to either drop a shit test on me or to justify her actions.

What I'm getting at is: Are there any good generic answers or responses that you can use in a situation when you really don't have any where else to go, she's caught you out or has the upper hand and next move will determine if this is going to go any further or not?

Obviously there can be a range on answers here depending on the situation.

Can you provide an example? I'm not 100% sure what you are talking about, but generic lines almost never work anyway.

I'm not asking for generic lines, well not really. What im getting at is sometimes you will be texting or chatting with a girl and she is being a flake or the interaction is not quite going your way somehow. You try to gain the upper-hand again by being cocky/ funny or calling her on her BS but it goes wrong and she gets the drop on you and you really cant think of how to recover in a non-afc way.

How do you handle this? Whats the best way to deal with this type of situation and still maintain your non afc status.

mate you are really gonna have to give an example,i mean i dunno it depends what she says ?most of the time just play it off,when she gets the upperhand or trys to shit test you the worse thing you can do is let it bother you just play it off i hope my advice helps but serously you need to give an example friend

A lame example is I was chatting on FB to a chick Id slept with a couple of times in the past. It was obvious that she was just using me for sex. Hadn't herd from her in a while, I was testing the water to see if she was up for it again but was getting met with excuses etc so I lamed out a bit and said something along the lines of

"What was that last Friday all about, a drunken booty call that went wrong?"

We didn't have full sex the last time I seen her mainly because I was stone cold sober and she was absolutely wasted and ended up falling asleep on me.

She ended up coming back with something like "I don't booty call. You said you wanted to have a drink and a chat, and that's what it was x" Even though it clearly wasn't, she had drunkenly called me to come down to hers at 12am after a night out for a drink and a chat lol. Then made out with me and invited me into her bed.

I was kind of lost for things to say at that point and never even bothered to respond at all because I felt anything I said at that point would probably only made me look even more afc.

Rather than try to think of something to reply, why not try to prevent this from happening next time? You admitted what you said was AFC-style and it was, so in the future, don't set yourself up for this trap.

Well that is the plan!

I wouldn't worry about it too much, you couldn't have done much damage by not responding. Shes just worried about u telling everyone, as long as she knows that ur discreet she'll allow you to continue that sort of interaction.

I'd say stop worrying about being right all the time/having the upper hand and be more concerned with what you believe. You went in with the frame that she is using you for sex (i.e. booty call). You could have just stuck with that, i.e. "Sure thing, just make sure that you give me warning next time, I'm pretty busy SPAM. X"

haha good answer, that's the sort of thing I was looking for. I think your right I do tend over analyse things at times. I am in process of doing a refresher, my game has generally slipped lately and I need to get back to basics. Starting off re-reading Bang, then going for the old fav double your dating. These have helped me a lot in the past.