The biggest risk in life is to not take any risks at all. Is this true? Thanks to people like you I finally started flirting with girls and learned slowly but surely to be funny, have alpha body language and so on(things I never done before). But still I am 23 years old, never kissed or had a girlfriend and that's driving me nuts. I can see IOI's given out by the girls simply because I can show of a positive energy and lots of smiles to people around me(regardless of sex)but i simply feel lost not knowing what to do next. Should I step it up a notch or what? I simply find myself stuck somewhere into the comfort zone. Taking risks was never an option for me. The only girl I ever said to her that she's worth my time (ok i said i love her but you get the idea) after refusing me I felt shattered, crushed my heart completely, even insulting me. But i got over it and want to start from 0 again. Thank you for reading this

Look up the "newbie challenge" If you complete that, you will be well on your way! Good luck Bro.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Thank you but no thank you. I do this all day that's why I progressed but after that I said afteeeerr that

Here is the link, afc-newbie-challenge-vt12759.html

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

that doesn't solve my problem. You didn't read my story. At least you should ignored it.

I did read your post, you say you have progressed past that stage?
You have numbers you are confidant in calling?

Where is it that you are stuck? What do you mean "The comfort zone"? Your comfort zone is the only hold up I see.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

That quote is true for everything in life, not just PUA. If you don't take risks, you'll never improve your lifestyle. Start off slow but make sure you are making SOME progress each and every day. Set small goals to push your boundaries of risk. If you go through an entire night and didn't leave your comfort zone at least once, you didn't do it right.

Also, it should be worth noting you'll never be 100% comfortable and confident at all times. No one can do that, and you should be forgiving of yourself for getting scared sometimes.

I mean comfort building that's where I get stuck at the kino escalation. I'm sorry I just don't speak english to often

Joke around and flirt while steadily increasing the amount of touching. Start with a quick tap on her arm using the back of your hand just before you say something. Then use the front of your hand, then continue escalating slowly from there. If she's into you, she'll reciprocate and it'll be pretty obvious that you're making progress.

Finally finally finallyyyyy!!! Thank you and by the way nice avatar