Hey so there is this HB10 I've been talking to for a while off and on, she hasn't really been the focus of my attention for the past 6 months, we have been doing our own thing. I actually had 2 different girlfriends in the time we've known each other.
I've started talking to her again and she really likes me and I want to make her my girlfriend but I'm scared she won't date me if she knows my real number of girls I've been with.
She keeps on asking how many girls I've been with and since I'm a pro I have evaded it everytime, but I know I can't change the subject for forever.
I know it's not a big deal to just be like..l tell her you've only been with 10 girls.
But I want to know if it makes a difference if I tell her or not...
Im 20 and I've been with probably 45 girls... Give or take 5, I forget them...I don't keep a list. I should keep a list.. No that's weird, lol.

Uhm yeah so should I keep tell her 10 girls or should I tell her 45?
And also she is 20 and has only been with 5 guys and 4 where boyfriends.
I think like 5 of mine have been girlfriends...

Don't lie to her tell the truth which is "Less than 20"...
and if she insists who/what/where...
you "I ready don't like to talk about my ex's... "(or something similar to:I kiss I don't tell)

I always have trouble wheat comes to girls asking me at question.

Do you think I should sleep with "less than 20 girls" for my entire life as being a PUA?

You should never regret who you are and what you've done. Be proud of whatever you do.

That said, just tell her you're not comfortable talking about your past sex experiences (A gentleman never kisses and tells mentaility) And if she can't be with you because of that then she's one you'll have to let go.

You can't change the past, so don't try to hide it or be ashamed of it. Always look ahead and keep your chin up...

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Two words: Carpe Diem

I absolutely hate it when girls ask this question. I usually say something such as "I really don't like to talk about my ex's" and if she pushes the topic I say something like, "Imma be honest, I don't really keep track. But I'm with you now and nothing's gonna change that." and push the fact that while you do get girls, you're loyal to the girls you're with.

I'm not going to tell you, and that's one of those questions, that we both don't REALLY want to know.

I have a similar problem but from the other way I have so little experience I think most girls will go off me if they find out. In fact there is this one girl that was really into me I decided to be honest and that was a big mistake works both ways I guess but if I were in your boat I think I would be more honest about it than I am.

Raven

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I hope you guys know that all women never answer this question truthfully the first time. So y should you care what your answer is. Tell her an outrageous number and immediatly ask her the same question. And then watch as she lies lol. I think women ask this question only to see if you are experienced or to see how you react. I usually neg them when they ask this question with something like "what, are you trying to compete with me?"