I'm new to all the lingo so please forgive me. I'm a married man going through a separation. She's a married woman also not happy in her marriage. We have been friends for two years but recently we've expressed that if we weren't married, her words, "I'd totally have sex with you right now". We got a little physical recently but put the breaks on in order to stay honest in our marriage. She brought up drawing a line and said she didn't want to be that woman. She's a 10, I'm a 6-7. I respect her boundaries and enjoy our friendship, but I also like the sexual tension we had. We text quite often and she comes to see me at work 5 days a week. We have lunch, walk, go out just the two of us. I'm trying to get her to chase me but know I've already broken some of the rules; told her she was pretty, showed some insecurity. I'm now trying to give her the cold shoulder to make her chase me. Just curious if any of you had any suggestions. Not interested in cheating, just like the tension and the chase. I want to be wanted.