I really want to ask this girl to prom but she hasn't answered my texts during the last few weeks. I have been on a date with her before and she always seemed to like me, but recently she has been ignoring me. Should I just man up and call her, and tell her that I want to meet her somewhere in person and ask her to prom?

If you can see her in person, much much better to do that where she cannot avoid your call or text.

Go straight up to her and say "Hi NAME." Her reaction to this will tell you whether she's receptive or not.

Stop texting her immediately.

Otherwise, if you can't see her in person, might as well call her, you have nothing to lose, but it's probably over. Just don't do it outta desperation--do it because you want to and you have nothing to lose.

I never see her in person because we do not go to the same high school but I have a back up plan if I decide not to call her. I'm just trying to weigh my options.

It wouldn't hurt to reveal your backup plan.

Really, you have two options: in person, and make sure she can't flake or by phone, where she will probably flake. But if it's not worth the hassle of your backup plan then might as well call.

Don't just not do anything or give up--all too often guys try to NEXT a girl because of their ego. But you have nothing to lose and everything to learn by trying something.

My friend who hooked me up with her is pretty much her best friend so he might be able to help me out. I know that I can get her to say yes if I can come up with a good enough idea.

You sound like you know what to do already. Did you just want ideas on how to ask?

I'd google it. There are plenty of Prom stories that would give you inspiration.

But really if she wants to go it can be simple....don't rack your brain, do something funny/creative.

haha I'm just trying to get some other opinions on what I should do I really like this girl and I want to end my senior year with a bang, I believe in going big or go home.

Just a question:

How many insanely hot girls have you already asked to prom? If zero, good luck.

It doesn't hurt to have (many) backup options. Don't put all your eggs in one basket.

there are some other hot girls I could ask but I want her to be the one.

I thought about sending her a letter to her house saying how pretty she is and how happy I was to meet her, and then at the end of the letter I would tell her to meet me somewhere in person (so I can ask her out). Would this be to much? or should I just straight up call her and ask her to meet me in person?

Sending a letter is fucking stupid, if you ask me. If she's not returning your texts, sending a letter is just even worse.

In fact, if she's not returning your texts, you may be fucked.

I would send her a text telling her to call you because you had something important to talk about. If she doesn't text or call, next that bitch.

If she does, tell her to meet you in person.

If she won't do that, she certainly won't go to prom with you.

Finally, get a (or several) backup plans. Seriously dude, just because you want one girl doesn't mean you should put all your eggs in one basket. Around here we call that oneitis.

Sir, you are already lost. She is not answering your texts = disinterest. If you can't meet her in person, call her. Now. Not in 10 minutes, not tomorrow NOW.

Any plan you think is gonna work. No it's not. It doesn't matter what plan do you have in mind. If she doesn't want to come she won't.

Stop overthinking this. Call her NOW.