Ok this is my 2nd field report that I’ve putting up here, and this time I could really do with some feedback, so please don’t hold back. I’ll keep it short and sweet, so here it goes.
So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, same one as in my last field report (
positives-and-negatives-vt159977.html) and the girl in this situation (
think-i-fucked-up-vt160121.html). So, anyway she text me basically asking when I was gonna take her out, so of course I arranged to go get something to eat with her.
Anyway, date went well, some light kino, and good escalation to talking about the differences in the way women and men look at sex etc. This all went according to plan, and ended up getting her to come back to mine (I live about 1 min walk away from the restaurant) for a nightcap. Once there, she realised she’d missed her train, so the only option was to stay over and get one in the morning.
Anyway, cut to the chase, we were kissing for ages, I was feeling her up, but she refused to take her clothes off, even though I was down to my boxers. I was freezing out a little, which was only partially working because she was initiating more kissing as a result, but again she was just not having it as far as going any further was concerned. Eventually we both got tired and fell asleep, and she left after kissing me goodbye in the morning. So what I need to learn to improve from this, is how to deal with ASD, or maybe realise that there was nothing else I could’ve done, and that the girls mind was just made up. What do you guys think?
CHAT