ok basically i suck at dating and d2
my textgame can be great, i get the girl flirting and wanting to meet up then i become a scared little b*tch on the date and play it safe.

I think the best way i can learn is if i knew how successful daters do it and what they do
what do you talk about, where do you go, how do you kino escalate, how do u kclose (up until recently i didnt think i would need to kino to get the kclose)

i used to talk about family and her school/education and boring topics like that. I changed it up a bit and talk about more fun things like travelling, ambitions and goals, her history of course if its interesting and so on

but i never have the confidence to go for the kiss. i feel like she wont see it coming cause she would have friendzoned me already

story on the side: i read online about a guy going on date, didnt know how to greet her (so shook her hand), made her pay, she made a big deal out of it, wanted to leave, but he begged her to stay, she did and even he got a kclose at the end. its always the same they give no real details and just chuck in the oh yeh i kclosed her at the end.

im much better than this. surprisingly there is no awkwardness or anything, im funny yet still cant kclose

sorry for the big post but really any help on how to behave on d2, how to kino and gain confidence

once she starts playing with her hair asking you questions and showing interest, it shows that it's time to increase kino (touching). When you tease her and she acts offended (playfully) give her a hug "poor diddums". when you want her attention brush her arm. hi5. hold her hand. Anything that increases physical contact. And finally kissing is just another form of kino'ing. if your shy do it on her cheek. since you've been slowly escalating physical contact will ensure its not out of the blue. If you need a line just say "I really want to kiss you".

Good luck.

thanks some good advice there
i guess it makes sense that if she was into me i would be feeling confident to show more interest
which means theyre not into me

do i have to build attraction or something on d2 too
how?