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Ok so lets say I open a conversation, get pasted the opener into a continuing conversation, I DHV with some new magic tricks, the cube, and palm reading that is soon to come (also a kino). Where do I go from there??? Once I get to this point I have attention and some value but my personal feeling is that DHV does not equal attraction. I still fell my looks and social status play a big part.
I'd like to learn about controlling the assumptions ppl make of you. I feel that the second you meet someone the first impression you have is very important because you relationship with that person will be built on the foundation you make on a first impression. Through a first impression ppl make a lot of assumption about you at first to fill in the blacks of there image of you. I think a lot of their assumptions are make through ppls looks because ppl associate non-attractive ppl with other non-attractive ppl. On top of that I feel that their is a link between a persons level of attraction and personality. I know that sounds ignorant to say but thats really what I have observed and there are rarely exemptions.
Looks don't mean shit. Style and personal hygiene are what women are looking for. Make sure you're clean and dress with an "edge"
You are absolutely right. But all the shit you have in your head about your value not being equal to your targets value is false. Stop thinking like that. People begin to develop hypotheses about you and your value as a person from the instant you open and they see you. You have to be congruent at some point or another... but fake it until you make it. If you act "high value" people will treat you like you are high value and you will begin to notice yourself fall into that role naturally.
Example... If society deems someone a "nerd".... The "nerd" will naturally begin to fall into that role because that is the way that society sees him. START ACTING LIKE YOU ARE THE SHIT AND YOU WILL BECOME THE SHIT.
And a suggestion... Quit firing off so much attraction material. Attraction is quick. You will eventually get to a point where you can just assume it. After you have attraction, start to show that you are "strangely attracted to her" and begin to qualify her as someone who is potential girlfriend material. Isolate her from the group and it's really baby sitting from there. Talk about things that will allow her to express herself. This will make her work for compliments. Drop all the DHV shit once you reach that comfort phase (because it is already assumed that you are high value. Too much will make it sound like you are trying to brag. You are a human being.) and from there just make sure you don't DLV.
Hope this helps you out bro.
CHAT