Hi forum!
A recent night out has taken my game to a new level, so I thought I share some of what I learned.

First of all, I have very good memory so I made it a point to remember the names of everybody I said hi to. I'v always known it was important but never to what great extent it was important. Imagine being able to walk up to 40% of the people in the club and address them by name e.g. “hey, Adam how you're doing?”. This is infinitly more smooth than reopening by something non-personal. Did you notice that I used “Adam”, a guys name in my example? This brings me to the second thing I learned, and it is really this that I took to be the most amazing revelation of that night.

Open up everybody, not just the girls! Let me explain the value of this. First of all you won't be seen like a prowler by the girls, because you seem to have fun with everybody so therefore you're not some “scum” looking for a quick lay, but rather a fun guy having a good time. The second value of this is that you can open any group of girls that those guy will be talking to in a very natural and cool way.

Imagine 3 AFC's standing talking to a twoset. You know the name of one of the guys so you walk up and say something like “Hey, Name what's up”, then the group will focus the attention at you (you ignore the girls) and the guy you talked to will laugh/smile stupidly and respond in some positive manner (because he's a shitfaced AFC and doesn't know that you will steel his girl). The girls will think that you know this guy since before (DHV) and you can easily fluff-talk a little with the guys and then introduce yourself and run your regular game from there.

That night when I followed those two rules was great because it seemed like I knew so many people at that club that random girls started to open to me and play with my hair and stuff.

Basically by being friendly with some stupid drunk guys I had created so much DHV that I could play it cool and not fret because the ladies would come to me.

Post your experiences with this technique!

So other guys have tried to do that to me and my buds before, lets just say we kicked the shit out of them. We picked up some girls in the club. We chill, dance, drink, I kiss close idk if they did or not. After the club closes we go outside with the girls and wait for our ride (a partybus in this situation). We were bringing the girls to our places when some fag we don't know comes up says whats up to me and my boys. Next thing you know they try to isolate the 3 girls and lock us three guys out. We grab the girls and start walking away when these fags try to go all alpha on us and getting in our faces. We start fighting and beating the shit out of them (the most he did was push me when i didn't back down from his screaming in my face and after that i gave him a black eye and maybe even broke his nose) when the bouncer intervenes and makes us and them go opposite directions. When that was over the girls were gone.

Long story short just be careful who's girls you try to steal by pretending to be guys friends. It may work some of the time but others guys are gonna stand up for themselves. It wasn't even about the girls that night it was about the disrespect.

I'm not really stealing anyones girl. I meant the method more for situations were guys are talking with girls and the discussion is a bit akward or boring. Then you will be welcomed. But in your case it sounds like they really lacked social awareness and tried to go for girls that were already digging you hard.