We basically were all over eachother for 6 months, she would text me wanting me so bad. Then I screwed up come christmas time and got her a 400 diamond necklace

never again

she became distant. for a very good reason. I was needy. I put her above everything. I valued myself lower than her and complimented her and was the nice guy. I did all of this without knowing (before I knew how women work)

she got turned off, said she needs space and Im just a friend now. no contact began

I changed as a man. she started contacting me again and I was a jerk to her. Said what I wanted wether she liked it or not. didnt agree with her on everything. finally strapped some balls to myself, didnt call her as much and acted Like I didnt care. she would say things like ";your so mean" and "your so cocky"... eventually she caught on to me again. we even began talking sex again.

here is the thing, as much as I act like I care less, and be jerky, I think she she feels as she still has me (not matter how much I act like I dont care, I sort of really do. and she still has that necklace to remind her)

by the way this is a long distance thing, she is visiting my city in 2 weeks, I dont know how to approach her. I dont know if Im a friend or not. I dont want to make a move and be rejected, I also dont want to look needy at all. help on my situation? I fuking hate that necklace and dont know how to turn it around. because in the end she knows I invested enough in her to buy her jewlery which comes across as super wimpy on my part

help guys

I dont want to make a move and be rejected

I changed as a man.