So all of a sudden, after getting hot and heavy she doesn't text you or call you as much as she used to. Is it best to back off and let her miss you?

Are there good lines you use to spark things back up again or is it best to just wait a bit? Also does this happen often?

Yes back off as a general rule. Wait til she contacts you.

Agreed. If you want to trouble shoot, you can think back to you last interaction and analyse if there would be anything to upset her. Or, she may have other problems that she needs to take care of, but its best to give her some space because A if she has something to deal with and you text her 5+ times she will get mad, and B if she doesnt want to talk to you your adding fuel to her fire. If you give her some time then she may forget whatever reason she has for being cold (if there is one at all) and miss/ text you.

p.s, maybe she is just a sexual predator and has got what she wants from you... like seduced you with lines and techniques in order to use your body...hmm, if only there was a term for that..

Actually there should be a term for that, where the stuff we say in jest turns out to be true in a negative way.

I saw someone post "LJBF and she said yeah i agree" haha. In this case, one of the girls got what she wanted a few times and now is just being cold. Its like hey maybe she met someone new, but does that mean I cant do anything about reattracting her?

I thought about busting on her and bantering again. But sometimes banter can still be a sign of interest.

Jace, what's your level of sexual experience? I'm thinking there might be a couple reasons for her behavior, aside from personal reasons (having nothing to do with you), or an argument if you can't remember having one.

1) If you weren't connecting sexually and giving her the best experience. Improving sexually is just like pickup, it's a product of both the right attitudes and the right experience. What do you mean by "hot and heavy?" How far did you go, what was it like for you and how did she seem to be enjoying it?

2) If you pushed without as much attraction or comfort as you should have gotten first, resulting in buyer's remorse.

So deconstruct the situation in those terms. Depending, it may be worthwhile to reengage her after a couple days have passed, or you may be better off gaining more experience with a new girl.

Question:

"hot and heavy" Means you got laid already, right?

If yes: She doesn't wanna talk anymore, GOOD! On to the next one.

If no: Wait it out, let her come to you. While waiting, work on other girls. If she comes to you, bonus. If not, you'll have another girl the next day.