Hi,

On ,my way to the gym I chatted up two French girls (Erasmus-Students) on the bus, it went well and when we parted I asked if they wanted to meet again. One was cautious, the other immediately got her blackberry, asked for my number and rang me up. I texted her later for a new meeting (with both of them) and she offered Tuesday, which didn't work with me because I wanted to play Frisbee with a friend, watch a soccer game and attend a pub quiz. So she offered next week. I first delayed an answer, because as a freelancer my schedule is irregular at best. The next day I got another SMS from her asking again, if I had time next week. I offered two days and she picked one on the ground that would suit her friend better and that this day would be easiest for the three of us.

So, if I am not completely misreading this, I am getting rather strong signals from one girls - but still she wants to bring her friend with her - which makes sense, as I wrote in the plural when asking about us meeting. Still, there would have been the opportunity for her to ditch her friend.

I have no principal objection to her friend coming as her friend is actually more voluptuous but I am not sure how to turn this into an opportunity. Should I try to meet with the eager one alone or should I roll with the "threesome date" and look how things pan out? I am not sure if there's some competitive rivalry going on between them or if she wants a wingwoman with her.

So:
Is this a clear sign of interest?
Should I try to isolate her from her friend (and meet her alone)? or
Should I meet with both of them and look how it works out?

Thanks for any hint. I've never been in this situation.

hey man im pretty sure the one with the blackberry is very intrested maybe her friend isnt so much if i was you i would bring a friend and double date and maybe text the girl before saying would you like me to bring a date for your friend and see what she replys and if the double date goes well you can isolate the girl you like and game her and hopefully get some uh la la

Thanks! Now I only have to find a friend who speaks French ...