Had One Itis for this girl, got my confidence back, told her I wasn't interested in dating her anymore & wanted her just as a friend to lower her value to me. Started talking to her friends stopped talking to her less than I normally did. Got her friend to show attention towards me in front of her, DHV'd in front of her. Now I texted her this.

Me: "I am going to give my friend a hug sometime soon because I feel like it."

Her: "Okay"

Me:"Even if you're my friend. You're still going to be the first middle eastern girl I bang. "

Her:"Haha whatever (:"

I didn't reply after that. I think I should leave things here and from here on out make things physical until she contacts me. And note that I haven't gotten a response that positive sexually from her in a while. She's not the type of girl to assume anything sexually you say is a joke. Based off my experience with her. So she knows. I was trying to be a bit more demanding and assertive to give off the vibe that she's on my court so it's my rules not hers. Which is why I didn't end my text with things like "Ok" or something like "You alright with that?" so she knows I'm not looking for her approval with what I want to do with her and I expect a positive response. What's next?

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first of all i want to point out to everyone flipping the script eg LJBF a girl + flirting escaltion etc = jedi game! you lower her value and make her think ur a lil intrested so she will work to get out of the ''LJBF'' status and chase you, ok now you need to go in for the kill so invite her to see a movie at yours get some wine(i personally dont drink but if you do in your culture) watch a scary movie (not a romantic one) and make her feel like it just happened make sure you end the text with a double bind question so are you going to come to mine tonight or next saturday? even if shes not free those dates you have a less chance she will flake and it displays dominance as its assumptive because it assumes shes already coming but she just need to pick the date.and escalate, if she shows some last mintue resistance show resistance too be like nah i was making a mistake i dont want to have secks with you either but then slowly escalte and try again goodluck your doing good

Ok thanks!

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